In the beginning me and my girlfriend were very nice to each other. We talked more, called each other all the time, enjoyed doing certain things and spend times together. We seemed to agree on everything. It seems flawless. We looked compatible and that’s what I feel in love with. After knowing this person for a long time now it seems different they weren’t want they say they were or what I wanted—we seem incompatible. How can two people in the beginning seem compatible then become incompatible? My girlfriend is a mock-up?
2007-02-06 06:59:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you guys are just bored with each other and need something new? I don't know, I've been trying to figure that out too but I just think that feelings can grow as much as they can change so maybe you guys just don't feel the same way about each other as you used to.
2007-02-06 07:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the beginning of a relationship, there are WAY too many feelings to get a good handle on whether or not you are compatible. You have to wait a while and see if things are the same after time. Most of the time after the feelings fade, you realize how much you covered up to be with that person, and what they hid from you. If you have a truely open relationship from the beginning, things won't seem perfect, but at least they will be real.
2007-02-06 15:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by peliglad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋