been seeing a guy for over a month and recently slept with him...we spent most of the following day together just hanging out and when i left he asked me 2 call him...usually men say i'll call u but never do...so i assume that he is genuinely interested. but im wondering how long should i wait to call him? i dont wanna look like a bunny boiler nor do i want him 2 think im not interested. its been 4 days...is that 2 soon? 2 late or ok?
2007-02-06 06:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by carly-jayne r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him when you think it's right. The reason he asked you to call is to see if you are willing to chase him.
It's all part of the mind games we play in relationships. Usually though I think the guy should do most of the chasing.
Anyways, if the sex was good then just give him a call.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 07:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by GypsyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your're really interested in this bloke then ring him now! Imagine if if it was you waiting by the phone? You'd be going mental waiting for the phone to ring! [good title for a song that.] Two days was enough to leave before you rang him so get on that moby and do the deed! You'll soon know if he likes you a lot by the way he answers. If he's cool towards you, have an excuse why you haven't rang and if he's really pleased to hear from you tell him you didn't want to be seen as a bunny boiler. Good luck!
2007-02-06 07:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by PATRICIA L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, 4 days is way too long. Call him right now and try to make up a believable excuse for why you left it so long to call him in the first place.
Next time babe don't leave it for any longer than 2 days, that way you wont seem too keen and also you wont seem like you don't care.
Good luck xxx
2007-02-06 07:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 days is enough time. Give him a call and see what's up. I wouldn't wait any longer. But I would wonder why after 4 days he hadn't called you.
2007-02-06 06:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a one night fling, or a relationship? Any relationship that I've been in, I hardly ever went 4 days without speaking to them. I would think that if this guy is serious about you, he is wondering why you haven't called. It sounds like you need to talk about where your relationship stands..if it is a relationship.
2007-02-06 07:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by throwdown67 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm...let`s say that communication is the base of every relationship, even friendship, so if you really like this guy and you want a future whit him, i think you should speak as often as you can, either face to face, either call him, and call him, when you`re in the right mood, every time you think about him, try to stay in touch all the time...that's best for the both of you
2007-02-06 07:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by The Stiffmeister 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely call, you are obviously comfortable with eachother having slept together, Im sure he'd hint if you were coming on too strong, which I don't think you are. You're obviously excited about the relationship, that's all!
2007-02-06 07:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by thinkin2myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've no idea as to the 'etiquette' of this, your situation. But, it would seem to me that it might help if you ignored the 'game play techniques' and just behaved honestly about yourself and your pleasures.
If it might come across to him 'wrongly,' then you could begin by saying that 'you are nervous about appearing too eager, but that you did enjoy...... etc etc' ~ or whatever, in your own words.
Hope it helps.
Sash.
2007-02-06 07:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a plan in life ? I feel you need some direction. I think it is not a case of, is it to soon to ring him ,its more a case of, is it to soon to be intimate.How well do you know him ? Call him today,to see what happens,but I feel you are unsure of what you want.You need to assert yourself more because you are vulnerable right now.
2007-02-06 07:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG are you serious...4 days? He's probably wondering what the hell...I'd go ahead and call him any day now..maybe he left it up to you so you wouldn't feel pressure...not sure...that doesn't sound like any guys I know but hey...maybe you really got lucky..
2007-02-06 07:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋