ok we are both 18.... i have always had the hots for her! i get on great with her too.... we have some history, we used to go out a few years ago.. but we ended up as freinds, that was a olong time ago.... she asked me the other night to go for a drink with her, so i did,,, a couple of her freind came too, but she told me she was going alone .... anyway, how should i approch her, i think she may want to remain freinds, how shud i ask her on a date without making a fool outta myself???
and if she dont feel the same, it might wreck our freindship
2007-02-06 06:41:47 · 8 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go slow. Don't ask her for a "date". Instead ask her if she wants to
2007-02-06 06:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask her to go out for drinks just the way she did. only when she shows up it will only be you. during drinks i would act cute and romantic with out being too forward. than tell her you had a good time maybe we should make this a weekly ritual . the more you show your charm with out acting desperate to be with her she'll come running to you . it's like playing hard to get but eating your cake too.
2007-02-06 14:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by vegas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult one. If I was you, I would talk to her...alone. I would tell her your feelings but stress that you respect her if she doesn't want the same things and that you hope you can remain friends.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 14:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by dazrama3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she wants to go to the movies er sumthin like that say just as friends then when u get to her house(after the movie er whatever)kiss her close but not on the lips that way if she dosent like u like that she wont be freaked and if she likes u she'll move her lips and kiss u back then u'll know!!! good luck!!
2007-02-06 14:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to be your valentine. cute card, maybe a flower, if she doens't want to date you - at least she'll appreciate the cuteness of the valentine and you'll have it out in the air. if you want to woo her - be romantic and suprise her by taking a risk!! good luck!
2007-02-06 14:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop a few "secret admirer" gifts with notes and see who she comes up with...when she doesn't name you...tell her with a big smile...that you are offended as you thought she wouldn't find anyone more charming, handsome, sexy, spontaneous, romantic and wonderful than you. She'll either admit her mistake or laugh "with" you.
2007-02-06 14:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so cute. I think you should talk to her. By the sounds of it she sounds like she is giving you mixed signals. Not cool! I would try and talk with her. see what she would like to do. She what she is thinking!
2007-02-06 14:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.
hot? what-you have a british accent.
ell anyhow, she is your friend, you know her better. just aske her how she wouls feel about you both going out
2007-02-06 14:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋