I have yet to understand the concept of cheating in a relationship. My Ex had like 10 other guys in 6 months. I gave her 1000% Attention. Sex, money, back and foot massages. all the attention anyone could ever want. Yet she still cheated. I am better looking then any of the other guys. I am jsut a nice guy looking for some answers.
2007-02-06 06:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by Twigits 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could have given her too much attention. I think someone cheats in relationship because their not getting something that they need. So in return they will go some where else and get that one thing that they miss. Then again people that cheat do it for the excitment or the rush.
Some people are just suptid.
2007-02-06 06:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why people cheat is an age old question - one I think can't be fully answered even by those that do it.
Sometimes people just want what they want. It doesn't always have to do with what they aren't getting from you. There can be a lot of different reasons. Maybe they're craving excitment and feel the only way to get that is with a new - "novel" - relationship.
Some people like the life they lived when they were single and want to continue this life even after they are married. This may include unhealthy habits such as cheating, gambling etc. Marriage is a big commitment and some people seem to not want to work at it. Instead, they want their partner to do 100% of the work while they go out and play.
Mostly it just boils down to someone thinking about themselves and only themselves. When you make a commitment to someone in marriage it means that you are bound to them - not through force but through love. When a person decides to cheat, they are thinking of only satisfying something in themselves, instead of working things out with your spouse.
If you made an honest effort to love your wife, take care of her and make the marriage work then don't hold yourself fully responsible for what happened. When a spouse looks to the outside for something, instead of inward to their spouse then the marriage is already doomed.
In the end, you got yourself out of that relationship. My husband was divorced three times before he met me, to women who hurt him and cheated on him. It's something that still hurts him, even now. Being hurt by your spouse isn't something you forget, but it is something that you can heal. You chose to put yourself first, and to value yourself - which meant not putting up with her s**t anymore.
So next time you feel blue about what has happened, think of the strength it took to get out and all the great possibilities ahead.
2007-02-06 15:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people cheat and trust me getting cheated on sucks. she apparently didnt want to be in a relaitionship if she cheated that much.how old are you?look for someone who wants the same out of life that you want.i myself am having trouble finding the one guy who wont cheat on me.
2007-02-06 14:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by sammi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is not so much into to you as you are her. it does not matter if your better looking some people just cant be with one person. as to why people cheat i think we have been trying to figure that one out forever. p.s. good luck
2007-02-06 14:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they r mean i ve been in the same boat do u have a girl now if not u wanna b wit me i am 24 n how old r u
2007-02-06 14:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by melton_misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off u cant change no hoe into kno housewife its been tried and tested and none of the outcomes came back positive try finding you someone else who will appreciate u......
2007-02-06 14:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by jessica l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋