Are there any ways to test whether or not she loves me or not? plz answer
2007-02-06 06:39:50 · 11 answers · asked by uofmcrazyfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Little to soon to be in love
2007-02-06 06:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kinda rushing it aren't ya. Love is more than a kiss or feelings, slow down.
It's all about trust,communication, affection,sharing same values, same views, same interests, enjoy each other's company, putting your own needs aside, laughs etc.
To reveal your feelings after only a few dates is not advisable (unless the feeling is mutual), most times it just scares them away. Keep dating for now and see where it goes from there, you'll know when the timing is right.
2007-02-06 06:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just kissed for the first time, it is WAY too early to start talking about love. You are probably freakin' her out. Relax a little and take it slower! You seem to have some major self-esteem issues. Why are you so insecure about her feelings for you? Be confident with yourself, and she will want to be with you! If you act like an insecure freak, she will think of you as just that! SLOW DOWN, and take it as it comes!!!!! It is too soon for love!
2007-02-06 06:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELP? PLEEEEEZE!! What's with the drama? After a first kiss you've just experienced a hard-on - that is NOT love. When you're 25, you'll know the difference. As for her feelings - you'll have to wait and see. Time will tell - not a kiss.
2007-02-06 06:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice? Play it cool. Whatever you do; don't confess your love for her..yet. Girls/women are hard to figure out..believe me..I've been trying for a long time..lol. If you spill your guts and tell her how you feel..she will probably run. *Most* girls are attracted to strong guys..guys who are hard to get. Treat her well, let her know that she 's important to you..but not TOO important..and don't make yourself TOO available. Love is, unfortunately, a game. If you make yourself a little less available to her, odds are she will make herself more available to you. Hope this helps you out.
2007-02-06 06:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by throwdown67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say the love word is a little premature here. Just calm down and be happy you have a girlfriend. Don't rush love, ever.
2007-02-06 06:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the kiss was only half hearted then she probably doesn't love you as much. but the only way to sure is by talking to her. scary but you need to ask her how she feels no one else can know for sure but her.
2007-02-06 06:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make things so complicated for yourself by doing tests!! if you really like her and respect her then talk to her.. communicate with her and just ask her!..communication is key and without that then you dont have a realtionship.. it may be hard at first but when your communication between you both is better things will be easier to talk about :)
2007-02-06 06:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her if she loves u the u love her n any ways she dont deservise u i do lol
2007-02-06 06:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by melton_misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've only just kissed her...then how do you know that you love her already?
Did you two just meet??
Has it been a long distance thing??
2007-02-06 06:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by marnan97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋