I like him so much but i still dont know.
2007-02-06 06:31:43 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you dont want to...DONT..
you will be disapointed.
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2007-02-06 06:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't.
Think about this- you only get one chance to give this gift-
one chance for a memory that will last a laugh time. Don't let those memories be of regret...
You already know your answer- you only wanted us to tell you you're right. You are.
A "boyfriend" you "like"... you're worth way more than that. Truly, this should be beyond "special".
It is a GIFT- THE gift a woman may give only one man ever. Choose wisely. No "do-overs" on this one. Don't spend quality time with causal people. It is OK not to be coupled up. Take your time. It is your right, especially in this matter to not only be picky- but not to not settle for less in even one condition.
It's better to spend a little time alone- only think of it as a reward for obedience to your heart. What would LOVE do next? True love is patient, kind, selfless, constant- on both parts.
It is real. It does exist. Be blessed.
2007-02-06 07:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI. Sex can be really great regadless of if you think its right before or after marraige. The truth is, there r alot of elements that determine if it will be WHAT U EXPECT or want.
The right time, place, person, emotion, attraction, etc.
What gives u the best outcome out of all these depends on how
u respect yourself. If u hold your self in high regard and know your own pryorities others will also.
This guy, doesnt know your pryorities or he doesnt respect them enough to not push -
2007-02-06 06:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by He listens, He knows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its as simple as this if you have doubts your not ready! DOnt do something to please someone else if thats not what you want!
Ask yourself these questions before you have sex!
1.Are you aware of the risk of pregnancy and are you ready to have a baby?
2.Are you aware of all the stds out there and how easy it is to catch and pass them?
3.Do you know what hiv and aids are?
4.Have you been to your doc for birth control?
5.Could you walk into a pharmacy and buy condoms? Or ask a family practice place for them and not feel silly doing it?
Do you value your body and yourself to make your own choices? And most important are you mature enough?
If you dont want to and he doesnt understand he doesnt care about you he just wants to get laid! And lets face it there are plenty of easy teenagers and woman out there!
22 years old single mother of two!
2007-02-06 06:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure, then that's a no. You're not ready, and it's okay to wait until you are. You and your boyfriend will more enjoy the experience much more if you want until you're sure you're ready.
You have the rest of lives to have sex, there's no need to rush it by starting now.
Also, make sure you both feel comfortable discussing condoms, birth control, pregnancy, and STDs before you do it. If you aren't mature enough to talk about the dangers and take reasonable precautions, then you're not ready.
2007-02-06 06:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure, it usually means your not ready (especially if your still in school). All guys want to score, it just depends on what your willing to give up for him to succeed..
You say you like him so much, why not love. Unless your in love I would wait , there's no use in doing something you'll end up regretting(you can't turn back time). Wait and make sure your in it for the right reasons and you found the right person.
2007-02-06 06:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are pigs, what you'll find as you get older is that you have to go through quite a few of them to find one that will be there forever for you and the other ones will say and do practicly anything to get down your pants. Once you've given up your virginity it's gone and it isn't coming back so I suggest you save it for someone that your absolutly sure will be there for you forever because you'll be giving up something that will be gone forever. there are other ways to satisfy him if he needs to release some tension, i would work with those options first
2007-02-06 06:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by song gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you have anything inside of you that is saying "maybe no" then you are definitely not ready. it's not because you do not like the guy, but you just aren't ready for sex. if you feel pressured at any time just remember that you could always back away. there will come a time when you are asked "do you want to have sex?" and your mind won't have any "maybe not" thoughts and that's when you are ready. it's people that rush into sex that end up with a fatherless child. i doubt you want that.
2007-02-06 06:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give yourself away so soon! If your boyfriend loves you he will understand your indecision!
Stay true to your values, don't let some guy tell you how to live your life. Your indecision proves that you are no ready for sex and that's OK. You have your whole life ahead of you and you shouldn't let a consequence of 15 minutes of passion(like pregnancy and STDs!) get in your way. Good luck!
2007-02-06 06:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it through sex is one of the most important thing in your life
if you are a teen age person i would suggest not
not until you are out of school and had time to see what life will bring you
keep your pants on and get your mind together
if he loves you he will respect your decision
if he pressures you than time to move on
he dose not have to worry with being pregnant
and all the thing that will follow you through the rest of your life
but that is how i feel about it
use your brain
2007-02-06 06:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by pbat9936361 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it!!!
You can only be a Virgin once. Save yourself as long as you can. Wait until YOU'RE ready.
Don't let your boyfriend pressure you. If he doesn't respect you enough to wait for you. He will not respect you afterwards.
2007-02-06 06:35:23 · answer #11 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋