If a woman you really fancied a woman (like big time) and she flirted with you and you had a girlfriend would you s.h.a.g her if she propositioned you? Or would you be frightened of her? Obvioulsy if you were sure that no one wlse would find out!! Well would you?
2007-02-06 06:30:04 · 22 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way I am a woman. Just curious as to know what most men would do! No judgment here at all!
2007-02-06 06:46:42 · update #1
The fact you even considered it means you don't care enough about your present gf... so go for it. Double dip while you can.
2007-02-06 06:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Don 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i was already in a relationship then I personally would politely decline her advances, no matter how hot she was or how much i fancied her as it would be disrespectful to the woman i was dating.
I would not be frightened of her.
there is no guarantee that your partner would not find out. so if you are in love with your current partner then you do not go sleeping around.
if you are with someone just for company sake and you are not serious nor not in love with that person then you may be tempted to sleep around. but to do so would leave you with a few moments of joy (with the woman person you fancied in this example the woman who propositioned the guy) but ultimately this feeling would wear off and you would be left feeling empty and used if this arrangement was just a one time only event for example.
so like i said i would not go sleeping around.
but i can see why some guys and women would sleep around.
2007-02-06 15:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is - you can NEVER be sure no one will find out. Would you trust this girl not to tell. She can't have alot about her if she's trying to steal you away! A quick fling for all the hassle. Not worth it. But as someone has already said -if you don't love your girl friend, then do it but finish with her first.
2007-02-06 14:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by JEC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but No.
I've a wife and a girlfriend / mistress (as she calls herself).
So I've enough to deal with without adding any likely complications (to say nothing of any possible STD's).
Anyway, I've never had a one-night stand and don't like the idea of them (for me, not for me personally).
There, does that help you?
Sash.
2007-02-06 15:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people are mutually attracted and there is no harm to any other parties, why not?
Even if you do have a partner and they do/don't know, if your partner loves you and wants you to be happy why not do what makes you happy. It doesn't mean that you're going to run off with this person....and even if you do...what is important is your happiness.
This could be the best thing you have ever experienced and you might give it up???!!!!
Live your life with love and passion!
2007-02-06 14:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would bang her in a second. Only way I would be frightened is if she started to put on a strap on.
2007-02-06 14:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Da Tiebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you knew no one could find out, most men would take advantage of that situation. Unfortunately you can't ever guarantee that someone wouldn't find out. Still it would be very tempting...
Chris Rock put it like this. Men can stop chasing p*****, but if it's chasing us we can't run that fast :)
2007-02-06 14:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Javelinl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2007-02-06 14:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely no way Michele.I love my gf to bits & would never ever cheat on her.We've been together 15 months & i love her more now than i ever did.So no, my heart belongs to my other half.
2007-02-06 23:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend is a relative term. If she was really your friend she would be happy for you if she knew. Still, I wouldn't tell her, no sense testing her friendship is there.
2007-02-06 14:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by George 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋