We on mid 30's and were dating for 3 mo. and then we broke up b/c he didnt like me the same same way, was always busy, w/ family problems and couldnt see a future for us. We agreed to stay as friends, but I cant b/c I love him and I'm sure he is my soul mate. I disappeared from is life for almost 2 weeks, dated other guys but couldnt stop thinking of him. Today for the first time after we broke up, I got online as available status at my msn, and he started chatting, asking how I was doing, if there was anything new. I was very cold but said life was great and I had made many new friends. He was trying to keep an conversation, then I said I had to go, nice chatting and bye. He answered he would talk to me again soon. If he really wanted, why he waited for me to get online? Insecure? I know he feels attracted to me as I do. But is it possible it might have a chance of him to be thinking about us being back together or he is just a nice nice guy who cares and wants to be friends?
2007-02-06 06:21:37 · 6 answers · asked by guriazinhainla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both actually, if he is really nice then he does really care about how you are doing, and that could lead to you getting back together, but don't get your hopes p and don't wait forever, be honest with him let him know that you still love him, and want to work things out, just don't smothere or be overwhelming you might push him away.
2007-02-06 06:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he was your soul mate, he wouldnt have broken it off with you. So, that isnt what he was. But, he very well could have been someone whom you cared for alot and fell for hard. It kinda sounds like when he broke it off, that he felt you wanted more than he did at that time.
3 months isnt very long to date, but definately long enough to develop heart felt feelings and this appears to what you have.
He on the other hand, appears to be a gentlemen and is trying not to hurt your feelings, because he does care for you but i think its more of a friendship caring instead of anything deeper.
If you can remain friends with him, then it may be good for you. But if you honestly cannot be just friends, then perhaps you need to cut off all ties with him and stop trying to make more out of it than what it honestly is.
There is a possibility that he does care for you but this does not mean he wants a relationship with you. I think if he wanted to be something more than friends, he would have hollered at you in an offline, or called you. I am sure there are others means of getting in contact with you.
I think you need to just let him go and try to find a new love. He isnt the only fella in the world. Dont torture urself by hanging on to false hope. He honestly hasnt given you anything to make you feel he wants anything more than friendship at this point. So move on, and if he decides he wants more, then i am sure he will contact you.
Dont waste your time here. Get a new bf. None of this is meant to sound mean or harsh, but you really gotta see it for what it is. you will fair much better if you do.
GOod luck hun.
2007-02-06 06:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not playing games with you, why are you playing games with him?
Just be straight up with him.
NO ONE just wants to be friends. It's a silly concept. Being friends with a former lover is more rare than true love.
You should try to re-kindle things and if it doesn't work, walk away knowing that it wasn't true love.
2007-02-06 06:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. His parents are Lesbian companions. His organic and organic mom is the two Diane or Irene. meaning which relatively everyone seems to be his organic and organic mom had intercourse with a guy in the previous or have been given artificially inseminated and have been given pregnant alongside with your chum. easy logic :D
2016-10-01 12:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that he may just wants to be friends because he may think that its just too weird to actually talk to you by phone or even see you in person. (guys are like that)
2007-02-06 06:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM TO CLARIFY YOUR FEELINGS
2007-02-06 06:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by octashiathamoneymaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋