Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about six years and i don't kno how he feels cuz im not his type but when i asked him, he seemed like he just didnt want 2 hurt my feelings n he said it feels right when i asked him why he picked me instead of the type of girls he usually goes with. I just want him to be happy and not feel like he has to keep going with me so he doesnt hurt my feelings. He says he loves me and i love him too but im just looking for advice.
2007-02-06 06:19:10 · 7 answers · asked by Nikkigurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound really insecure and shy or timid. you need to learn to be more asertive and learn to quit worrying so much about things that probably not a problem!! if you have talked to him and he wants to be with you then let it be!! don't make a problem where there isn't one!! maybe you should get some counseling to help you learn to more in control of your fellings and learn to love who you are so you will stop thinking its ok to be hurt or its ok to let someone get rid of you just because you think your not his type!! learn to love you and then you will be able to be anyones type!!
2007-02-06 06:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're obviously his type if he's stayed with you for 6 years. Guys seem to have this complex, where they don't want to hurt women that they care about or love. There's no worse feeling for a guy than to know that he made his woman cry. Just straight up tell him, but don't be surprised if it doesn't make a bit of difference.
2007-02-06 06:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, because you're not like the other girls he's dated, you think you're not his type?
Have you considered the possibility that YOU are his type and THEY were not?
I think you should not ask leading questions which can only confuse your own feelings about yourself and about him. You should be with him and if he's unwilling to share how he feels about you, then you should ask why.
But they key is if he's with you, then chances are, he WANTS to be with you.
2007-02-06 06:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he says he loves you then guess what he loves you. guys are the last people to say things they do not mean sometimes people change the kinds of people they date that is noting new. or maybe your just the first person that he has met that is the same as you ! does that make sense??
2007-02-06 06:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and be honest with him, and if he didn't care for you I'm pretty sure he wouldn't of stayed with you for 6 years, relax and enjoy. and stop worring about what if. good luck.
2007-02-06 06:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he say he dont want to hurt your feelings?!
2007-02-06 06:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋