I've told my Ex girlfriend who I still have feelings for that we should just cut off all ties and not call, text or speak to each other in person ( we go to the same church) because she has a boyfriend now but I still want to be with her but it's too hard for me to handle that she's with someone else. We've done this so many times before but everytime she ends up either calling me or sending me a text message. And just recently she's done the same thing, after I asked her not to do any of these things because then it's going to get me back to square one again, She's fine until she sees me then that's when she starts up again, keep in mind we were both in love with each other and dated for a year and a half so this wasn't just some puppy love relationship it was serious, I don'T know what to do I've tried plenty of times to just cut things off with her but it seems like that never works I miss her so much but, why can't she just let go and enoy her new boyfriend and forget about me ??
2007-02-06 06:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to do the cutting off, and not talk to her. If she calls or texts you, don't pick up, and don't call or text back. Don't email her back, or anything. Then, get busy with your life. Get involved in stuff, and just move on. Yea it's hard, and it hurts, but it's doable.
2007-02-06 06:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, would suggest, just keep her around for the occasional booty call.
But, i'm getting the impression that you're to young for such good advice. Stay in church and do'nt stress out over the things that you ca'nt control and just do'nt matter. Move on, Buck.
2007-02-06 06:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by wedged15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number, find a new church(I am sure there is one in your area) and just forcibly cut off all ties with her.
2007-02-06 06:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do is just sit down with her and talk to her , ask her if she still want you , because you both agreed to cut off all contact. by her breaking the agreement she must want you still. so just talk to her
2007-02-06 06:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by lil, mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that she's trying to be friends now. My ex still txt messeges and call me, we became friends now, its weird at first but, just keep in mind that you 2 arnt made for eachother, but its ok to be friends,.
2007-02-06 06:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by a Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your numbers. If she starts driving by, move.
That's about the only way to handle fatal attractions.
2007-02-06 06:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Don't respond to her anymore. Block her e-mails and phone calls.
2007-02-06 06:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Chiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on to and get a girl keep in touch with your x so that she could see that you moved on as well
2007-02-06 06:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cus she a female!!!!...chicks r complex!!! period!!!
2007-02-06 06:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋