its been 2yrs we have been through a lot lets just say that he has done things which have made it difficult for me to trust him there are times i feel that we dont have a future is this because of what he has done or this relationship has lived its life .i feel he is pretending to love me
2007-02-06 06:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
going through the same exact thing right now.. been with her for 19 months she did some things that are making it extremely difficult for me as well. and as the love thing goes... he may be infatuated with you and not really in love with you.. thats kinda what im going through as well im not sure what the outcome of it is.. you never will know. But if you really do love him toughen up and see where it goes, things happen for a reason. if its not ment to be then its not ment to be.
2007-02-06 06:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18, almost 19 and I'm engaged. I've pretty much paved the road for a permanent future. Before I asked my fiancee to marry me, I had to think about how we felt about each other. I knew with all my heart that she was who I wanted to spend my life with.
My point is, don't aim for a long future unless there is no doubt at all, because that doubt can grow an develop into worse problems. And whatever you do, don't force it, because that can lead to serious things such as domestic violence and materialistic tendencies.
2007-02-06 17:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by forgetandfallout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a situation like this before.
he never gave me a reason not to trust him, but for some reason we were constantly arguing.
one day we sat down and had an extremely long talk, to clear up all the confusion, and made sure that we both understood each others point of view.
everything was perfect after that, and two weeks later, we were engaged!!
this relationship has taught me to never make assumptions, and just come out and ask him whats up.
you will never know for sure until you do!!
2007-02-06 14:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put distance, stay clear, run, do not look back, make a clean break.
All of the above and then some.
2007-02-06 18:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds cheesy, but if you don't truly love the guy and you don't think that he loves you, than you probably don't have a future
2007-02-06 14:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Phil's Afternooner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you should not continue, than go ahead. It is noting wrong if your are not married.
2007-02-06 14:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i feel like i;m reading my life lol i think you should move on and dump him
2007-02-06 14:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the guy
2007-02-06 19:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋