ok we are both 18.... i have always had the hots for her! i get on great with her too.... we have some history, we used to go out a few years ago.. but we ended up as freinds, that was a olong time ago.... she asked me the other night to go for a drink with her, so i did,,, a couple of her freind came too, but she told me she was going alone .... anyway, how should i approch her, i think she may want to remain freinds, how shud i ask her on a date without making a fool outta myself???
2007-02-06 05:44:56 · 8 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say .... im going (somewhere)... wana come?
2007-02-06 05:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by calisrfgrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let her know how you feel, me & my boyfriend have known each other since kinder and never told one another we had such feeling until a year ago, and we just missed out on soo much as a couple, so I say go for it you have nothing to lose, and just in case she doesn't feel the same towards you then you guys are still friends, it's not considered making a fool of yourself with friends remember Friends are people who know everything about you, yet still stick around to go through more with you...
Best Of Luck : }
2007-02-06 13:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. looney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don`t necessarily "ask her out on a date," just ask her to go to the movies? after the movies ask her if she had fun regular conversation. if she reply yes then ask hr if she would like to go get a drink or something to munch on? take her to a none expensive place, sit down and talk, look at her and smile gaze into her eyes, say i really enjoy spending time with you, smile say i have been wanting to ask you this question, i am not sure what your response maybe, do you mind if i ask it? shel say ya`h sure or okay what is your question?( depending on her personality) then you say long as we stay friends, i wanted to tell you how i feel.then tell her,i would like to start seeing eachother. get to know eachother a little more...
if she says no then say,hey! atleast i tried, change the conversation. if she says yes then, kool !just a little tip.. grab her hand and kiss it, smile at her. leave the resturaunt . then bla, bla, your on your own.
2007-02-06 14:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by katana b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put it out there, you would like to pursue a more serious relationship with her, and take things slow and see what happens just let her know you do not want your friendship with her to be hurt, so she has to be willing to give it a try, and if not at least you have the wonderful friendship you always have had! Good luck
2007-02-06 13:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only way to make a fool of yourself would be for you to not take a chance and ask her out... get some balls...
2007-02-06 13:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her...thats the only way your really going to find out
2007-02-06 13:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. and if it doesnt work out you can still be friends
2007-02-06 13:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by dot_ridr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about "Do you want to go out with me"
2007-02-06 13:48:09 · answer #8 · answered by Claudia P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋