Hi everyone. Please i need all the help. I met this guy online who is from NY and im in DC. And we have been together for almost 3 months. And time has gone by and there have been some mix- ups and up and downs, but we have stuck throught it together. And he finally gave me his number to call him when ever I want, i think since last week, we want to talk more on the phone than instant message. Well since last friday he has not been answering the phone and im worried because he has my number and he does not email me back and i have not clue what is going on. I dont know what to do. He wont answer the phone. And im ready to burst! what im i to do??
2007-02-06 05:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by jean g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how can i go??? im in school and im at work!!! im dead if he leaves me!! i need help.
2007-02-06 05:43:54 · update #1
you have been together for almost 3 months? Or you have chatted for almost 3 months. He could be married and is just playing around on the internet. Maybe he got busted by his wife and he is in big trouble now? His hesitation to give you his number should have clued you in.
2007-02-06 05:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure what his deal is but I would ignore his calls for a while if or when he calls you back. So that way he doesn't think that you were just sitting around thinking why he hasn't call. and for god sakes girl stop calling him other wise he will think you are desperate.
Also take into consideration that something horrible may have happened to him or to a loved one and that is why he hasn't called. I was in the same situation w/ a guy and it turns out that he fell off a ladder at work and had to have emergency surgery and could not get to a phone nor computer for 2 wks.
good Luck.
Stephanie
2007-02-06 05:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by smbrennan24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the trouble with long distance relationships. You can't just go see him when you want and know what he's up to. It's only been three months, hon, don't get so worked up about something that hasn't had time to materialize. Stop calling him so much, for one. Maybe he's busy, maybe he has a girlfriend and he hasn't told you...either way, sitting around ready to burst is not going to get you any answers. Just leave it alone for awhile. If he doesn't respond back to you in enough time, then leave him the hell alone. No one is worth chasing after the way you're chasing him. Go to a movie with your friends, maybe you'll find a guy who you can actually see instead of type to. Hope you don't burst! LATER!
2007-02-06 05:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have made the effort to contact him, the only thing left for you to do is to wait it out. If you don't hear back from him, then it's not meant to be and be glad you found out now before things got even more involved. I'm sure this isn't the answer you were hoping to hear, but for your own sake, back off. You don't want to freak him out either with constant contact. Take care and best of luck!
2007-02-06 05:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never belive to people that you have never seen and don't know anything about apart from the words he has told you. So I think you mustn't take this thing so seriosly, if he replyes ok, if he doesn't, who cares? Don't lose time with him any more.
2007-02-06 05:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up to experience and move on. Don't waste your time trying to fix it. If you feel you have to have a b/f find some one local. At least you will get to enjoy their company before they steal your soul and rip your heart out.
2007-02-06 05:45:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget him. If he's that into you (or what little he knows about you from online), then he'll want to talk to you all the time. At least you haven't spent more time on him!
2007-02-06 05:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to e-mail him one more time as well as call if he does'nt want to talk to you then 4 get him move on there are pleanty more good luck :)
2007-02-06 05:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've done all there is to do. Now wait and see what happens. If he doesn't contact you soon, move on with your life. You may never know what happened, unfortunately.
2007-02-06 05:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he lost intrest. it is hard to find love in this world, even with the technology we have. i say forget him, his loss anyways, find a real man who can treat you right. if you are intrested in looking online try dating sites that are a little safer than meeting someone in a chat room. try yahoo personals or match. com or something like that.
2007-02-06 05:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋