every time i look at him he smiles at me it seems like we both like each other but am too shy to talk to him.help help
2007-02-06 05:39:18 · 25 answers · asked by hun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had that same thing goin on with a girl that i really liked in HS. We would stare at each other all the time but i never had the nerve to go up to her and talk. I really liked her and i later found out that she liked me too and i felt really stupid for never making the move. I know in our society the guy is supposed to make the move but if you really like this guy for get that and go for it. That happened to me like 4 years ago and i still wonder what could have been. You really do not want that .... trust me. strike up with him after class and just see where that goes. I know that might be tough if you are shy but thats one of those things u just have to dive head first into. you dont have to be forward but smile at him alot and let him know that you like him. good luck
2007-02-06 05:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by BigBallzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need help. Just let it take its course. He's the guy and if there's anyone who's going to need to figure out how to take the next step it's him. Just keep smiling to him so he knows you like him too. I agree with the people who suggested saying "hi", but not anything more. Something will happen naturally, which is a much better way than a direct come on by the girl.
2007-02-06 05:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys love girls, they just have no idea how to approach them. Most males appear very confident on the outside but in reality even the coolest acting guy is a wreck inside when a girl is involved.
Pick a moment when not too many people are around and just start a casual conversation. Let things go from there. Don't over-complicate it before it even starts.
Good Luck.
2007-02-06 05:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by mrgregddavis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it up! Smiling is the first step. Next try talking to him out side class like, "Class was so boring today!" or "Did you see what whats-her-face did!". Try to get him talking with you. You don't have to come out and say I LIKE YOU! Start off with small talk and work up from there. Some times you don't even have to say anything. Walk out of class with him, maybe he'll start the conversation!
2007-02-06 05:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid to talk to him. im the exact same way. i am VERY shy. but then i talked to someone and they told me that i should spend more time with him and get to know him. if you do that then you can decide if you really want to continue with a relashonship. You should talk to him! if he's not going to make the first move, you should! ; )
2007-02-06 05:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by dot_ridr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better talk to him because if you don't you may not ever find out if he likes you. I am shy as well, and when girls look at me I may like them, but I am to shy to talk to them.
2007-02-06 05:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Budman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a girl. You definitely have the upper hand. He feels pressured to talk to you . Just go up and talk to him, and he will feel so relieved.
2007-02-06 05:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him and say "HI". What's the worst that can happen. The world come to an end? Doubt it.
2007-02-06 05:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter
2007-02-06 05:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He isn't smiling at you, he's smiling at the boy who sits behind you.
2007-02-06 05:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋