I have been friends with this guy since last August and we've become pretty close. We go out, shopping, dinner, movies, we email and talk on the phone basically everyday - he even made sure to schedule his classes at the same time as mine. He invited me to go to a New Year's Eve party with him and even talks about us going out to dinner with his friend and his wife and about how much his friends will like me. However, we've never kissed, held hands, only hugged and when we go out to dinner or a movie, I always pay for my own. Additional info is that I am going through a divorce and he knows this so I'm not sure if that has anything to do with the mixed signals or what. Anyway, I'm fine with this either way, just wanted some other opinions! Thanks to all who answer!
2007-02-06 05:33:55 · 7 answers · asked by Melanie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No no! He's not married! Never has been!
2007-02-06 05:53:45 · update #1
Sounds like he's totally into you and maybe just waiting for the divorce to be final. If I were him though, I would offer to pay.
2007-02-06 05:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by steemshovel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds go me like he maybe feeling something more for you, he's probably just giving you time to get everything settled from your divorce and he doesn't want to rush you. I'd wait it out a little more and see what happens. When your divorce is final see how he acts then!
good luck:)
2007-02-06 13:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you guys are just very close.....someone can be very nice to you and give you things without likeing you.
i have a bestfriend just like that he calls me everyday and we hang out all the time. But we are just friends....we pretty much act liek brother and sister. he may be attracted to you but he has a wife so you guys will probally remain just good friends.
2007-02-06 13:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It reminds me of that book, "He's Just Not That Into You". He may love spending time with you as a friend, but it if was more, there would be more to it.
2007-02-06 13:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by KP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably just waiting for divorce to be over...
2007-02-06 13:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by calisrfgrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait he has a wife?
2007-02-06 13:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Smirnof_Ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you guys are just seeing each other...
2007-02-06 13:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋