ok Im going with this guy and like somthimes he wont even hug me but on the computer he says all this stff about sex and stuff.which is it?
2007-02-06 05:14:50 · 20 answers · asked by britty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahah ull never know...maybe he's just really shy in person but can say watever he wants online..it's like he has more confidence online then in person..
and maybe the real reason why he only talks about sex online and cant even hug u in person is because he's scared to touch a female and wants too...and reals alot more comfortable talking about that online
2007-02-06 05:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people feel protected by their computer screens, and being online makes them feel liberated to say things that they usually wouldn't. I went out with a guy like that once... it didn't end up well. You need to establish an OFFLINE relationship, because right now I think you're under an illusion of what your relationship is. Do you know him fully? Get to know him offline and see if there's chemistry there. If he's still not comfortable even hugging you, or other forms of PDA then I think you need to ask him what the deal is. Talking about sex online with you whilst being passive when you're together is really degrading for you... it's like he can't or is too embarrassed to say these things to you in person, but online he can say what he truly thinks. In person, right now I guess one of you isn't ready to act upon it, and because that need isn't being fulfilled, he is unaffectionate towards you. I think you need to tell him to get his rear in gear or else it's time to move on... you deserve better than someone who picks you up when they want you and drops you when they don't. Good luck.
2007-02-06 13:29:36 · answer #2 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy, your shy, no matter if it is in person or on the computer. I would say he's a perv. I'd stay away from him. I'd be concerned that he is going to stop being shy in person and act on the way he talks to you over the computer.
2007-02-06 13:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy_cruzir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go with perv. Why be with a guy that won't hug you but wants to talk about sex?
2007-02-06 13:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Britt,
Depending on your age, this guy is probably nervous and shy. He probably wants to fool around but isn't very confident. Either way you really want a man with confidence not someone who is shy scared and will never lift off the ground. Think of the big picture not just the small stuff.
2007-02-06 13:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a perv. Dump him.
2007-02-06 13:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a perve
2007-02-06 13:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a perv to me
2007-02-06 13:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a perve
2007-02-06 13:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perv
2007-02-06 13:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋