When I go to a bar or club to meet women, I try to exhibit confidence and a hint of *********. I believe that many women find assertiveness attractive. At what point does it become overbearing or unattractive?
2007-02-06 05:10:57 · 26 answers · asked by jandiun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The EXACT amount that I have is perfect :-)
2007-02-06 05:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Scott M 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I dont think ********* is ever an attractive trait in a man.. or female for that matter.. self confidence is...there is a different.. ********* is when you KNOW and SHOW off how great you think you are, self confidence is when you show that you KNOW your worth, and that you are a positive human being but you are modest about it... modesty is one of the sexiest traits out there..
and to answer your question more thoroughly..when you are at the point where you are other putting other people down and are acting better than someone else.. you have gone too far.. you might as well leave the bar.. there will be no *** for you in there lol
2007-02-06 13:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by njshoregrrl25 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It becomes overbearing when you think too much of yourself and too little of some other person. ********* is not something that is to be admired or adored in anyone. Someone who acts as if they know all things is a bore to say the least and a pain to say more. Women want a man to be assertive in some things but not everything. Women do not like wimps but neither do they like haughtiness or know it alls. Women want guys to be sensitive and romantic and yet confident in their own abilities. Women also like men who take charge of things but also keep their wishes and desires in mind. There must be a balance.
2007-02-06 13:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can be assertive in public.. or not.
you can be 'cocky' as long as you have a monster rooster to back it up....
iif you act all studly, you better be a stud in the sack, in other words.
you could be the biggest toghest mojo in the room, and if you don't 'measure up' where it counts, all the girls will shun you like a bad amish teenager.
you could be the most shy calm easy-going sweetie.....
without an OUNCE of *********, and if you can please the girls in a biblical sense, then you have done your job.
Imagine this conversation between two girlfriends:
Betty: Oh my Barney, he can whip any bouncer in this bar.
Wilma: Yes, my Fred he isnt a fighter.
Betty: Barney might just show anger and rage about having a tiny peanut-sized penis, what do you think WIlma?
Wilma: True dat Betty, maybe that's it. Like a peanut, you say?
Betty: Yes Wilma.... a small peanut.
Wilma: Well gee Betty, that sucks to be you huh?
2007-02-08 07:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is (in my opinion) the most attractive quality in a guy. Even if i wasn't interested to start off with, when a guy starts talking all confident (which is *********) I get interested. I draw the line when guys start saying stuff like that implies they can have me or take me....I think you just need to be confident in what your good at. Like if your a good dancer show that off, or a smooth talker then keep talking. Be confident in your actions and stature and that will come across as sexy not overbearing!
2007-02-06 13:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
********* and confidence are two very different things...and unfortunately it's the ********* that a girl will pick up on most even if it's just a hint. Cut it out now!!! or you will lose!!!
By the way, confidence will be displayed in assertiveness, so just be yourself and let go of the crap.
2007-02-06 13:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by LoPi 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There's a fine line between ********* and arrogance. Be very careful. Confidence is great. Arrogance is a great big turn-off.
2007-02-06 13:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pretending To Work 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To the point where it's ********* for the sake of coming off as attractive.
Stick with a self-confidence based on your actual capabilities and knowledge, and who you really are, and you'll be much more attractive.
2007-02-06 13:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by somebody 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
None. ********* is just annoying insecurity. If you're truly confident, you don't have to put on an act. Don't confuse ********* with confidence or assertiveness.
2007-02-06 13:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Confidence is a good thing. ********* generally comes off as obnoxious and stupid.
Have a good day.
2007-02-06 13:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have 8 inches of ********* Thats always a good thing
2007-02-06 13:27:29 · answer #11 · answered by lawson403 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋