My and ex and I were together for three years, before breaking up six months ago. The thing is we've talked and we are both still deeply in love with each other. The only problem is he has a long distance girlfriend, I mean really long distance like 1200 miles away. They never see each other and he is always with me and always calling me. Out of respect for his girlfriend, we haven't been affectionate, but we both want to be. The way he looks at me, lets me know he still loves me and it just makes me want to melt. I don't know what to do. I want him back, I believe we are meant to be, but I know he doesn't love his girlfriend. I don't want her to be hurt, but I think he should be with. What do I do?
2007-02-06 05:07:33 · 10 answers · asked by ma07 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're hardly respecting anyone -her, or yourselves - if you claim to be deeply in love, yet he's still leading on another girl. Make a decision and quit playing games with people's emotions, especially one1200 miles away.
2007-02-06 05:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there's. Feels like he nonetheless has emotions for his ex. Looks are not the whole lot on the subject of relationships. It is no longer about what you've got either. I am sure you're smart enough to grasp that. But, you sound too into yourself and are not entirely invested in this guy. He would have read that about you and made up our minds to absorb what he remembers feeling along with his long distance ex. And to him is worth seeing her best four-5 times a year. There is where your trouble lies. It is 4-5 instances he sees her a yr. It's not so much and he does not sound too occupied with a dedicated relationship with you certainly. He's placing onto his earlier greater than getting to understand you and be in the direction of you. I'd drop this guy. If he cheated as soon as, he'll cheat again. Hope I helped.
2016-08-10 15:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure there is. sounds like he nonetheless has emotions for his ex. seems are actually not each little thing while it includes relationships. it is not approximately what you have the two. i'm particular you're clever adequate to be attentive to that. yet, you sound too into your self and are not thoroughly invested in this guy. He might desire to have examine that approximately you and desperate to absorb what he recalls feeling together with his long distance ex. and to him is worth seeing her in basic terms 4-5 cases a 365 days. there is the place your concern lies. it is 4-5 cases he sees her a 365 days. it is not lots and he does not sound too attracted to a dedicated courting with you of course. he's putting onto his previous better than attending to be attentive to you and be closer to you. i could drop this guy. If he cheated as quickly as, he will cheat lower back. desire I helped.
2016-09-28 12:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by matzen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ex boyfriend may just be trying his cake and eat it too. It's important that for you two to have any sort of relationship that you sit down and talk to him about how you feel. Don't worry about the other girlfriend's feelings, be concerned about your own. It may just be lingering feelings that your ex has for you but he's reluctant to be in a relationship again for the same reasons you broke up.
I would tell him that you still care greatly for him and if you can't be with him as a girlfriend, then your relationship with him will require greater distance. Don't get lost in pursuing something you can't have if he turns you down. Take some time to be away from him and discover yourself again.
2007-02-06 05:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by jandiun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he wnated to be with you than there would be no such thing as him having a long distance girlfriend. That's just the thing, he has a girlfriend. Obciously, if he cared about you and loved so much than he would be with you. Listen to your head in this situation.
You deserve better, get over him and find someone else
2007-02-06 05:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
cuz if he was really feeling u
he will have left his current gf for u
but there s something there that is preventing him
from pulling the trigger
maybe he s scare u might break his heart again
i dont know
this needs to be discuss with him in a nice way
2007-02-06 05:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabbe u should tell him how u feel.. tell him that u still love him and u want him n u to b together....and he needs to be wid u only not the long distance gf...she needs to go first before he could get wid u ..
2007-02-06 05:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really still loved you he would not have a long distance girlfriend. she would be history.
2007-02-06 05:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how u feel, tell him if he wants to be with u or his other gf. tell him u want to know cause u dont want to get hurt
2007-02-06 05:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear................If he's going to do that to her what do you think he'll do to you?
2007-02-06 05:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋