All right some kid decided to play a prank on me and tell my mom i have a 19 year old boyfriend. And I am only 14!!now my mom beleieves that i am going out with this person. I mean i do have a b/f but he isnt 19. he is 16. Anyways, she was very nice about it she was like you know we are "THIS" religion we cannont date anyone outside. And she was really nice about it an stuff..(not yelling). But I want her to know i would never do such a thing. By the way i am not allowed to date but i do it anyways. BUt still 16 isnt 19 and it isnt overage.
2007-02-06 05:07:09 · 13 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should tell her the true! but i don't think 16 is overage i think that is the right age for girls who is 14 years old my niece is 14 and she talk to boys who is 16 i'm sure if she sees your boyfriends and if she knows that he goes to school with you or something then she should know that you is telling her the true.
2007-02-06 05:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a 16 year old bf, really nice guy!
anyways ur right 16 is i not 19! and in a way it kinda shows that your mom doesnt trust you! if she can belive some kid playing a prank! but the fact that she didnt yell at you shows that she does think of you as an adult
2007-02-06 05:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Leelah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom and dad do not allow you to date yet, they have there reasons and you should respect that. You are setting yourself up to be distrusted by your parents and with good cause.
My daughter could not date until she was 16 years old. She was mad and angry too. She turn 16 years old in November and still to this day has yet to date someone. There is a giant difference in date readiness from 14 to 16 years old. I think you should tell your parents you are sorry and repent. You are not old enough to be dating anyone and your are asking for a relationship you are age wise not able to handle. I hope you listen to me if your not gonna listen to your parents. Your just not ready young lady.
Sorry to be the giver of bad news.
Tracylyn S
2007-02-06 05:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom used to believe any paranoid thing people would say about me when I was a teenager too. It shows a basic lack of trust coupled with expecting the worst so it sounds believable to her.
You need to sit down and talk about how you want her to trust you. Ask her why with no evidence at all she's taking someone else's word over yours. Tell her how that makes her feel.
Of course, to get trust you must earn trust - you'll have to tell her about your 16 year old boyfriend. The religious restriction is disturbing to me personally, but that's up to you. I never have a problem with an adult telling me they will only date inside their religion - I just don't like it when parents try to force the restriction.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 05:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with your mom. She will feel better than your boyfriend really is age appropriate, even if he isn't your religion. Myself, I don't believe in restricting love based on someones religion, as long as they believe in God. There's always room for growth in religion, whether it's of the same faith or not. In any case, it sounds as if your mom is pretty reasonable, and able to communicate well with you, so I would definitely be straight with her, she will appreciate it in the long run.
2007-02-06 05:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 is too old. 16 is absolutely perfect. mom is just worried
2007-02-06 05:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
19years is an adilt but in canada you nee to have no more the 5years apart of each other if the yougest is under 18years.the goverment aprove it two weeks a go.
2007-02-06 05:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her the true! im sure if she sees ur bf and knows that he goes to school with u or something than she will know that you were telling her the true....
2007-02-06 05:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty mean of your "friend"....
Tell her the truth. Let her meet him. She may like him and then she'd know that he isn't 19.
2007-02-06 05:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can really do is just tell her and if she dont believe u then dont worry about it........ if u know that ur bf is 16 then that's ur business and no one else. dont worry about it anymore
2007-02-06 05:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋