My ex offered for us to just hang out as friends after we broke up last Thanksgiving (2006). I declined then because I knew it would be too hard on me. Now, I am sort of feeling I might be able to handle it. What do you think? Do you think it will completely re-open those wounds and I will hurt all over again. For some reason, I still have this feeling deep in my heart that one day we will get back together. Is that just my wishful thinking?
2007-02-06 04:54:34 · 7 answers · asked by gt5879c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are not truly ready to be friends with your ex yet. If you get to the point where you can truly let go of all your feelings and the hope that you might get back together than you can be friends. One of my ex-boyfriends is one of my best friends. We were better off as friends than as a couple.
2007-02-06 05:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could open up a lot of old wounds, if you're not fully over someone you shouldn't be meeting up or hanging out with them because it could bring feelings back. Being friends with your ex can cause you two problems. A, if you ever get a girlfriend I'm sure she won't want you hanging out with her. B, she's blocking you from other women and it gives her a chance to work her way back into your heart and life. If she broke your heart the first time then she'll break it again, it's inevitable. So you'll be saving yourself the heartache. Why does she want to hang out again anyway? To see you? To be with you? What does she want from you? You ask her these questions, she can't give you the answer she's trying to stir up mixed emotions. Decline again. Until you're totally over her, you may or may not get back together but if it's true love then you'll know. Good luck babe!
2007-02-06 13:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your always gonna have feelings for some one u loved. so things didnt turn out right no reason u still cant be friends. your always gonna wonder wut if we didnt break up and things like that. but they r just thought. im still friends with most of my exs except for a few that i will never speak to again. but i say why not give it a try or else your going to be wondering wut could have happened if u did go.
2007-02-06 13:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get your hopes high. that could cause you more pain then you may realize. If you want to see her again, then let her know your intentions. Being honest is the key, if you still love her.
2007-02-06 12:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by mekaylahall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! No way man. It's over, move on. Why put yourself through that crap! Cut your dick off and send it to her- that's pretty much what your asking about right now.
2007-02-06 12:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Gostenhauser5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are holding yourself back from having something better. Let go, and move forward. You will be glad you did.
2007-02-06 12:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
If you truely know you will never be again, stay way.
Or you will be in one heck of a roller coaster ride!
2007-02-06 12:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋