im confused!!who should i believe?bf or bestfriend?

Question

im confused!!see i met my boyfriend by my bestfriend because they are cuzins!!well now my bestfriend says he was playing me and i believed her so i dumped him and i didint even ask him!!so a week later he told me that he never played me..that i never even trusted him...so now i regret it..but then my bestfriend says that he was playing me...who should i believe?

Answer 1

to me it sounds like a bunch of BS drama dump your best friend get over your boyfriend and move on. find your own man. Never let someone "hook you up" with someone they know. it never works. Lesson learned (I hope)

Answer 2

Well i think that ur best friend is probely the one to tell the truth.U should have asked her where she saw it and when.But who knows u gotta think because there is a good chance she may be making it up and just made u do that because she doesn't want u and her cousin togther.Why don't u go back with him and have a good time.It's not worth leaving a guy for something u don't even no for sure he did.If he's really cheating then ur seriously bound to catch him sometime.So I would go back with him and ignore your friend.Like they say seeing is beleiving and the only way you know for sure is if u catch him.Im sure u don't wanna lose something that u could have a good relationship with.GOOD LUCK i hope it all works out.

Answer 3

If he's your best friend's cousin, I'd say she knows him pretty well. And if she is truly your friend, she wouldn't haven't lied to you knowing it would hurt you. It sounds like you have doubts about him and if there's doubt, then there is no trust. And that isn't a healthy way to start a relationship if that's what you were wanting. One thing I've learned in my many years, is that one should go with their gut feeling. I don't mean this to sound harsh, but better a LITTLE heartache now than a BIG one later on.

Answer 4

Ever watch Springer? could be your "cuz" is looking to "hook up" with him. It doesn't matter, devote the time to your education - learn how to spell cousins and actually use descriptive terms other than slang like "Played me" which can have a million meanings. She tell you he cheated, or lied, or just talked about you behind your back (all valid uses or the expression PLAYED)?

Either way you are way to young to be worrying about this guy let him go, if you believed her you did it for a reason.

Answer 5

i would choose the friend. because the chances are that if you did date the guy you would break up eventually. then you would have lost both of them. a good friend can be with you forever, but usually guys come and go until you find the right one.

either he really was playing you or your friend was jealous of the time you spent with her cousin, or he really was playing you and now he is lying to get back with you

to set things right with your friend just explain that it will not change you friendship in any way. and you want to give the cousin another chance. your friend will probably have something to say about it but will let you give him another chance. she is just protecting you.

tell him you are giving him another chance. if you see any signs of him being a player, break it off, no exceptions.

hope this helps. good luck

Answer 6

You should have talked to him about it. Maybe it's not too late. Tell him that your gf told you he was playing you and it upset and embarrassed you, that you reacted quickly and now you regret it. Ask him what was going on, why he thinks she might have said it. Then you can decide if you believe it. Your gf may have meant well, but perhaps she was misinformed. You should always try to check it out yourself before taking anyone else's word on such a thing. Good Luck. :)

Answer 7

You shoulda done some digging on your own to prove to yourself he was indeed playing you. This way you wouldnt be confused like you are now. I would trust the gf. She has nothing to lose by telling you this.
But next time, dont be so quick to jump the gun. Make sure you have your ducks in a row before you grab the pellet gun.
Good luck.

Answer 8

You should trust whatever your eyes see. Yes she is your friend but that doesn't mean that she wouldn't lie to you and yes he's your boyfriend and that doesn't mean that he wouldn't lie to you either. Girlfriend in this situation I would've asked him first and then make a decision based on that because bfriends get jealous too. Tell him that you are sorry if you really love him and get a chance to know him better before you judge him.

Answer 9

I always say don't believe what other people say unless you are already feeling that way. Never and I mean never take the word of others when it comes to your relationship unless you are already have a feeling that it maybe true based on the actions of the person you are with. Words without proof are just that....WORDS!

Answer 10

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Answer 11

You need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend and best friend and get both sides of the story. Ask your best friend why she thinks he was "playing" you and if she knows it for a fact or if she just thinks he was. Then tell your boyfriend what you heard and ask him about it. After talking to both of them trust your heart and go with what it tells you to do.