My boyfriend of four years ask me to have a threesome with another woman i said yes because it was kinda exciting and new to me , but now he's upset he said that he doesn't satisfy me anymore that's why i agree . what should i do so he won't get mad at me anymore.
2007-02-06 04:40:03 · 21 answers · asked by Deniece Lei A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say No! IT is his own insecurity. Both as a Man and in the relationship in general. He needs to grow up and the old addage:
Becareful, what you ask for , you just might get it, comes to mind.
It is like men who want to watch girls do it with another man, and when she runs off with him, they ask why?
Stupidity....Which is why the world and GOD prefers monogomus relationships.
2007-02-06 04:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sherri S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say No! I too would have a big problem watching my guy get it on with another girl I would find nothing sexy with that. Believe me, all men have the threesome fantasy but if you do have a threesome then you have to realize that he is going to want to do that again and again and again. There are lot's of alternative ways to turn a man on and use other fantasies to get things going. Just kinda brush that aside and maybe casually ask him what some other fantasies are (men have lot's and I'm sure that you have some too) why don't you tell him what some of yours are too and act them out. He could be really turned on by the fact that your willing to tell him some fantasy secrets. (Guys like hearing the dirty stuff) - I think you'll regret the threesome. Best of Luck!
2016-03-29 07:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one that asked you so he shouldn't be upset. You should be questioning his motives. It's not like you'd be the only one getting enjoyment out of another woman joining in.
By the way things like this are never healthy for a loving relationship. If you are doomed not to be together then go for it......but people get hurt when there are feelings involved.
2007-02-06 04:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should take some time to consider why this is exciting to you. Is there something you need that there boyfriend isn't giving you? Maybe just sit down sometime with him and explain that you just want to be good for him and make him happy. Sex like relationships in general is reciprocal, if you make sure to please him he will try his hardest to please you.
Additional partners can be a very bad idea if either of you are prone to jealously or think you may end up falling for the person you invite to join you.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 04:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by jandiun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it anyway because he asked you to and you are excited and when it's over I would tell him that if he doesn't really mean something he should not ask. Because he thought that you were gonna get upset and not want to do it, therefore he has something over your head, but you turned the tables on him and now he feel insecure. He wanted you to feel that way. GOOD 4 U?
2007-02-06 04:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and do it. Might want to get a vibrator or dil*o or "The Rabbit" (My wife's personal favorite to use on another woman). Trust me, once you and the other woman get started with each other (and women really know how to please women) your boyfriend will be very appreciative. Might even record so you'll have the video to enjoy together any time you want.
Let me know how it goes.
LiL EarlE
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2007-02-06 05:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by LiL EarlE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and find someone a little more stable. Wanting two conflicting things at the same time and not being able to resolve which is more important is perfectly okay, and we all go through it, but it's not fair of him to beat you up mentally because he can't decide what he wants.
2007-02-07 09:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your opinions or decisions revolve around whether or not they make your boyfriend angry. Just always be open and honest, and if he doesn't like who you are or what you're into, then you'll know he's not the one for you.
2007-02-06 04:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by lizzgeorge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but, your boyfriend is an immature jerk. Here you are willing to broaden your sexual horizons with him and then he gets defensive after suggesting it. Hope you learn more about him from this and dump the jerk.
2007-02-06 04:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to shut the f*ck up and get in bed with you and another lovely woman!!!
2007-02-06 04:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋