I'm completely lost, I feel like I'm going to explode. I can't take this. I love him, he has a new girlfriend. We got in a big fight. Hating him was so easy. It wasn't like before, when we were best friends. I didn't have to worry about loving him. Now he thinks I hate him because I won't talk to him after he apologized profusely. I just don't want ot get hurt again....I'm sick of this, my friends are sick of this, we're all sick of this. Do I move on and lose my best friend in the world whom I love very much but not just in a friendly way, or do I stay, keep my friend and continue loving him, which hurts like hell? Any other suggestions? Please, please help.
2007-02-06 03:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tried telling him how I feel and that I need time to heal...it didn't work, at all.
2007-02-06 04:01:40 · update #1
You need to walk away for a while. There is nothing that says you can't be friends eventually, but you need time to grieve the relationship and heal a bit. Tell him that you want to be friends, but you need time to get over him before you can take that step. It does hurt, but it will get better if you give yourself some time and space.
Good Luck
2007-02-06 04:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a new GIRLFRIEND, so I think you should move on. Your feelings are too strong to remain 'friends'. You don't have to hate him, but you need to take the necessary action of seperating yourself from him b/c it's in your own best interest. Stop obsessing about the issue and just walk away. No drama, no fights, no whining. You loved and lost. It happens. Good Luck
2007-02-06 12:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your carbunkle. Not an easy choice. Not easy but the best bet is to move on. Just tell him that it hurts to stay friends at the moment and you need some time.
2007-02-06 12:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should try to talk it out with him. maybe he feels like he is wanting you too. Everyone has problems, you've just got to go with it and let it ride.If he isn't all for you like he used to be than that's his lost.Just don't show that its bothering you because he'll get the best of you. Good luck.
2007-02-06 12:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Misty P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on. You'll never be able to do that if you try to stay friends when you don't feel the same way about each other.
2007-02-06 12:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Julie F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much of a friend can he be if you are hurting soooo much? time to move on with your life he is not a friend if he is doing someone else now is he and not much of a husband.
2007-02-06 12:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restrictive relationships are always healthy....NOT!
Who's going to say stay in a destructive relationship? Too much life and too many people to waste on such petty matters. Big picture. Keep it in mind.
2007-02-06 12:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r going thru a withdrawal stage
take it easy
back off him a little and get ur self together
u will be fine in a few months good luck
keep ur self busy it will distract u from it
2007-02-06 12:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on gurl!!!! you've had enough! not unless you haven't ....
i mean there are guys who are far more better than he is.. yes i know you do love him.. but is it worth it?? come on, just be open to new possibilities.. but you have to be sure of yourself if you are ready for the new adventure or chapter of your life and that's without him.. and in the future w/ somebody new...Ã you have all the love in your heart that you suppress it just because of this guy...
Good luck..... Ã
2007-02-06 12:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a boyfriend or best friend? I say move on, he cant be both
2007-02-06 12:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by law woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋