A question for Guys....?

Question

This guy I used to date just called me, he saw my sister at the store and asked her for my new cell number...we haven't seen each other in like a year. He has a girlfriend now, but he wants to come and meet me for lunch... I asked him if his g/f would like us going to lunch, but he said he didn't care. Is he just wanting to be friends? Or does he want to see if we still have chemistry??? I still like him, what should I do?

Answer 1

Nothing wrong with meeting for lunch.
Hey, here's a thought, what if JUST wants to meet up for lunch?
In many cases, men remember those in our past who had great qualities.
It doesn't mean that he's making a play for you - even after he's acknowledged having a g/f. Point is, that if he's honest enough to tell you that, he's probably being up front with you. Nothing wrong with friends, even if it may not have worked out in the past.
That may not have been the role he should've played in your life, which is why it failed.

Answer 2

I would meet him. Was he a good lover in bed, if so maybe you still think about those times and want to re lite the fire again. Give him a Nice hug a a kiss when you meet him and see if he returns the same. Be brave and go for it hunnie xo

Answer 3

There's nothing wrong with meeting an old friend or flame. He may just be curious as to how you look and are doing.

The important thing to ask yourself is with theses feelings you still have for him, knowing that he is now in a relationship, do you trust yourself to be around him?

Answer 4

He definitely wants to see if you still have chemistry, I did the same thing with my ex. The history you shared makes u more comfortable with each other.

Answer 5

it sounds like he does want to get together BUT the message he is giving is that he is prepared to cheat ----- he needs to make a decision --- does he want to stay with his girlfriend or see if there is something with you --- he cant have both im sorry to say