Ok here's the situation... me and my ex have broken up in early december, and we havent really talked since them... mostly because i was avoiding her... i got really mad and broke it off, because she was being a goddam hipocryte.......... one of the things that ticked me off is that she scoulded me whenever she talked to my brother, who was mean to her, but he only did that because her sister was a ***** w/ me, i always ignored her, i didnt care what she thought of me, i just wanted to be w/ her... but the one time my brother was mean to her, was way worse then the millions of times her sister was mean to me... i'm planning to write to her today, and telling her exactly why i have been ignoring her... but hsould i try to get back together w/ her... or should i just explain and leave it there?
2007-02-06 03:12:49 · 13 answers · asked by Paris, je t'aime 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obiviously...you like this girl a great deal its feburary and you still wanna be with her...you should try if she wants to be with you and you want her then just forget the bro and sis and let yall make the committment and its yalls relationship so tell your bro to back the hell off and tell her sis to back the hell off and let yall be together
~ashlie~
2007-02-06 03:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you and her do not hold much loyalties for each other. You two are so concerned about her sister treating you badly and your brother treating her badly that you got side tracked and are blinded to the real issues as hand. In other words her sister and your brother know they can come between the two of you and since you both allowed them to do so, you both proved them right. Whenever other people treat your significant other with disrespect it is because they feel they can get away with it. And in this case I can understand why. In any relationship there first has to be up most respect for each other, and this respect is displayed in the way you treat and value one another, to the point that others will notice and follow through.On the risk of sounding cruel, I really feel that until you and her learn this concept, then your relationship is doomed for failure. In a relationship that special person should be the most important person in the world to us, or why have a relationship? . Hope you give this some thought and even if you decide not to ask her back I do hope what I have said will help you in any future relationships you might have. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-06 03:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Answer is no leave things alone. Like you said you broke up with her for foolish reasons.No matter how much your brother didn't like her your place was to stand up for her.How can she trust you again and not do the same thing to her?I wouldn't even try to explain now what your reasoning was you should of done that way back when.You have been on your own and I am sure she has gotten on with hers so I still say the answer is no.If you can't stick up for her to your own brother what would make her think you would stick up for her in any situation? You should of thought from your heart not your head!!!!!!!I say get on with your life and leave her alone.
2007-02-06 03:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by claysnjgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you want to talk about it? You havent talked to her in over two months. What is going to change about this situation? When ever something like this happens my advice would be to take care of it asap and dont sit on it because the more time that is wasted could mean that she has moved on to bigger and better things. And whose heart will be broken then?
2007-02-06 03:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yous guy are having family issue being mean to each other. You all have to grow up. Write, call, or talk to your gilrfriend and get this whole thing over with. If you still care about her and she still cares about you, then try settle this whole issue about the meaniness breeding among you all go on with your relationship with your girlfriend
2007-02-06 03:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In life you have to learn to forgive and forget things no matter how much it hurts. Talk to her and tell the things you do not like and ask her change so that the relationship can grow stronger and healthier.
2007-02-06 03:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by coreenhyman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id write the letter & speak your mind & take it from there,,knowing that you may or may not get back together until everything is resolved at least.
2007-02-06 03:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound too angry to get back with her right now.
You should talk it out and stuff, but if you still feel the anger then its never going to work out.
2007-02-06 03:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by chelseylauren2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without even reading your long draw out explanation the answer is:
NO!!!!!!!!!
You broke up for a reason, stop being a pus*sy and get out there and have some fun!
2007-02-06 03:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think u want to b with her or love her so dont waste her time go be mean to some1 else
2007-02-06 03:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋