A: How long does it take to get over a relationship?
B: How long does it take to start enjoying or even wanting intimacy (physical) with another man again.
C: Why do I rock so hard and he's going to be sorry he ever cheated?
2007-02-06 03:04:32 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs.Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as the reltionship lasted
As soon as you get over it.
Because you want revenge. Best revenge is be happy again with someone else.
2007-02-06 03:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ended a relationship because your partner cheated first you need to know that you did the right thing.Once someone cheats you can never trust them again so you know the relationship is definately over with no hope a getting it back.Now you need to put the past to rest you cannot move on into a new relationship until the old one is completey left behind.One thing that you can do to begin moving forward is write a letter to your ex don't mail it but write him a letter get all your feeling's out on paper and then burn it.This way you can say everything and get it out if your system.Everybody deal's with loss in their own way and own time there is no set time limit of how long it will take you to get over what happen and move on.Just know that you deserve better and he was not the right man for you and that the right man for you is out there you just need to begin your search.take it one day at a time and you will be fine.Good luck to you.
2007-02-06 11:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There really is no exact time it takes to get over a relationship. Its different for different people some people can get over it in three weeks some people cant over it for three months or longer. It depends on a number of things such as how much you loved and cared for that person and how serious you and this person were. And if you and that person are friends or not after the relationship can play a big part too. And as far a being intimate with another person like i said it all depends on you and how you feel and if you feel like you are ready or not.
2007-02-06 11:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by reses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Can never say for sure, but I have heard a week for every month you were together
B. The sooner the better, but don't rush in to anything for any reasons other then your own happiness. And never do anythign just to make the "ex" jealous
C. Why do you rock so hard? Good question. If he is any kind of person he will feel bad for cheating because he hurt another person, but maybe he will never question his motives for cheating, whatever they were.
2007-02-06 11:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no time limit on when we get over someone it is a process and it does take time. we first must be over the past relationship first before starting new, as if not we will carry the hurt of the past into the new relationship. he may or may not be sorry he cheated, revenge only hurts the one who seeks it. keeps u in bitterness and keeps u from moving on into the next part of life.
2007-02-06 11:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends how much u care for him to decide how long it takes for A.
I think u should wait awhile to get busy or you might get taken advantage of or feel like u wern't ready afterwards B.
Because as long as ur honest with urself and others and dont get too boaring and are open to try new things its all good and yeah! C.
2007-02-06 11:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Adrianna N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. I never get over someone
B. I almost alwasy want physical intimacy, hardly ever get it though, even with my wife or my anti wife
C. Its your nature I guess, who did he cheat with and how? And why?
2007-02-06 11:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and take your time. keep your mind busy and off of things for a while and lf you work then this is good cause not not always thinking to much of the relationship you lost.
2007-02-06 11:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by pamela d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each person reacts differently in a break-up and time to heal depends on that person
if you keep your heart hateful , you'll never let someone else in- need to get on and get over him
other than busting his head, you need to move on , chalk it up has him being an assh_le and never give him the time of day -- find someone ( and that takes time and trust , again ) but it will happen----- good luck
2007-02-06 11:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. If you want C then you arent over him, and theres no set time limit, its all in your head and you have to fight it.
B. At first it feels like cheating but then you get over it
C. Do everything you came to do woman, with my ex I was miserable and he took away my reason to live and voila. a yr later, im hot, single and sexy, gym rat, new car, new job, ft school to be a doc...the man is broke(didnt listen to me) in debt(didnt listen) wnating me back(didnt lidten to me) lol need I go on
2007-02-06 11:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋