i love a girl but she is moderate to me.she says she is in love with another guy.this is true or not i dont know.i have heard that now they two had some quarell resulting in a break up.I want her to love me.i have seen the guy with her once.the guy is very ugly and not so well behaved.i think she does this to make us jealous.and the guy is 3-4 yrs older than her.please suggest some thing.
2007-02-06 02:59:14 · 14 answers · asked by rambono.9211 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a compulsive-obsessive freak
2007-02-06 03:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she was really interested in you, she would be with you, considering the affection you have for her. Unless she likes to play games with boy's heads, and if she is that type of girl, than you dont need her in your life. I bet she is pretty hot looking, and i bet that is what first attracted you to her. "Not all that glitters is gold".
IF by any chance she is not the type to play games, then she surely is not interested in you. I bet somewhere, maybe in front of your face, is someone who feels for you, what you feel for this other girl.. Because that is the way love is.. Like that song from Adam Sandler, LOVE STINKS! In the movie , "The wedding singer." It is sooo true. Why dont you try getting to know the person you might think actually has a crush on you. You might get to like her personality, and see her in a different light.
Let us know~
Best of Luck!
2007-02-06 11:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by MOON13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, don't play games when it comes to the heart, you or she or anyone you meet...you can't make someone like you or love you, it just comes naturally, and don't let her use you, if she has broken up with the guy, then she might use you just to have someone there for her, some girls/women just have to have a man in their life to make them complete...so, go with your gut feeling, and move on, if you are meant to be you will be..and equals at that, she needs to like/love you as much as you her...not one sided...so, just hang in there, and the right one will fall into your lap when you are least expected....good luck
2007-02-06 11:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, who is "us" in the "make us jealous" part of this? It doesn't matter if you think her boyfriend is ugly or not well behaved. That's not up to you. She said she loves someone else and that's where you leave her alone and find someone else. If you knew that she was dating someone else then you shouldn't have said anything to her in the first place. That's not even right.
2007-02-06 11:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Katie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to love you. Let her figure it out on her own that the guys she's with is a douchebag. She'll come around, when she realizes that she had it good with you. Girls are dumb like that, they always want the guy that treats them like crap and always wants to be friends with the nice guys.
That's just how we are.
2007-02-06 11:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time, always be there for her and dont back down just because she likes some else. And when she falls in love with you it will last a while knowing that you didnt give up without a fight. be the man that he never was.
2007-02-06 11:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by the world will never know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you WANT to be with a girl that plays games like this? If you say "Because I love her" I am going to smack you! Love is NOTHING without respect!
2007-02-06 11:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if she wanted you she`d be with you right now
2007-02-06 11:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume she's tryng to make you jealous. She may not like you.
2007-02-06 11:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by glinda2125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want her to love you, be kind and patient. hopefully she will see what a jerk that guy is and decide to be with you.
2007-02-06 11:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋