There's this girl I recently met at work. I've only known her for a few weeks and I only see her once a week; but we hit it off really well. We both enjoy each other's company, whether at work, outside, or just on the phone. She's amazing, she's like a guy, loves football, video games, and she's very attractive; I know every guy at work wants to jump her bones.
She has a boyfriend of several years, normally I would totally play games and convince her to break off with her boyfriend, but I couldn't with her, don't know why, maybe I've matured since university, but who knows; Because of this I've kept most of our conversations on a friendly side, with hardly any flirting (seriously hardly any flirting).
She told me a few days ago that she might break up with her boyfriend, something she has only told her bestfriend and apparently myself now. So it seems the dirty work I couldn't do, was done for me.
2007-02-06 02:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The problem is...our relationship is getting closer, we tell each other what we normally don't tell others, etc. But I really truly believe that our relationship is heading down towards the friendship level, and nothing more, despite her breaking up with her boyfriend. I know I should take it as a sign, but I am not cause I really think she sees me as a great friend but not a boyfriend.
Any advice on how to change her views? I can't make someone love me in that way, just like someone can't make me love them in that way. But I do want to see if something can happen. But I can't just come out and say it because she's my co-worker and I don't want to walk to eggshells all day if this blows in my face.
Thanks for any advice.
2007-02-06 03:01:45 · update #1
It's a sign. And she obviously told you to hint to you that she will be single. If she had no interest in you, she would not have said anything about breaking up with him.
2007-02-06 03:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetest sin <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain, it would not ensue very frequently, yet once in a lengthy time period that is like contained in the flicks, prompt love. notwithstanding i ought to indicate caution. once you're merely separated you're of direction hurting and lonely. that still makes you susceptible to absolutely everyone who's type to you and cares somewhat about you. In such situations it truly is ordinary to fall in love merely to later hit upon that you've gotten your self right into a authentic disaster. i'm no longer conserving do not see him, if he's nice for you with assistance from all means spend time jointly, it should be functional you get well out of your separation. yet, do not bypass in with him and don't be in a hurry to make any committments. as a change wait until eventually you've healed, until eventually you're extra autonomous and strong. If the courting retains to be being concerned and loving at that element, perchance evaluate making it somewhat extra formal. yet for now be conscious that this can merely be a reaction for your recent difficulty.
2016-11-02 11:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by lobos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't dip your pen in the company ink! It doesn't matter how much you like this girl, if you start a romantic relationship with her you could be asking for trouble as long as you work together. If you guys get into an argument that can spill over into the work environment. I would keep your feelings to yourself and try to get over her. You don't need to complicate either of your lives...
2007-02-06 03:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just continue to be her friend and support her decisions, girls dont like when there guy friends encourage them to break up with there boyfriends. You should tell her how you feel. Maybe she likes you but thinks that you only like her as a friend. And what if yall never say your feelings and you live your whole life thinking of what it could have been. Act fast!!
2007-02-06 03:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best relationship comes from a great friendship...maybe she wants to take things slow with you i mean she is breaking up with her bf of several years and isnt going to want to jump into a relationship right away....just hang in there im pretty sure that it will all work out in time.
2007-02-06 03:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really seems like she likes you. In the way she's able to tell you things things might be in a way that she can truly talk and connect with you. You never know unil you ask
2007-02-06 03:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by baby_girlcara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will make her choices regardless of what you think. If she does break up with her BF, then she will. If she wants to date you after that, then she will probably make suggestions to that effect.
2007-02-06 03:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Brandnewshoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as co-workers you need to be careful not to jeopardize your jobs. She may feel comfortable telling you things that she wouldn't tell others...but she might not be romantically inclined...or reclined...toward you.
2007-02-06 03:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better ask her out quick or you will be stuck in the friend zone.
2007-02-06 03:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question?
2007-02-06 03:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋