The guy I met is really affectionate, sincere, and respectful....he is very romantic:tries to hold my hand, kisses my hand, and every chance he gets...tries to kiss me. He kisses soft and slow and NOT try to stick his tongue down my throat.....since we both are working Valentines as well as that week he is sad because he wants to have a romantic dinner with me.....is this weird that I get embarrased when he says cheesy romantic things to me and I always find myself about to laugh?? I am 29 and dated tons of nice guys but this one is the only romantic one and I like but dont know how to take it....any suggestions?? thank you :)
2007-02-06 02:54:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-06 02:57:35 · update #1
sorry....he works at 7pm and I get off at 7pm......
2007-02-06 02:58:48 · update #2
Be more aggressive. See what happens. If he's too soft, then he'll probably not have the stand-up type of man you'll need in given situations. They call that hen-pecked.
If he's too aggressive, that's just unleashing his emotions letting you know that's he wants you.
Remember, men are more physical. Women are more mental/affectionate.
Men may not verbalize their feelings, but they'll project their attitudes.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 02:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe with out knowing it he comes off to you as too superficial, meaning faking it. This is the only reason I can think of that you would laugh during the times he is saying romantic things to you. Maybe he is coming off too strong in the romantic department. I know I would feel very uncomfortable and maybe say to myself "yeah right".....! I love romance but I am also a realist, being this way can sometimes ruin the moment especially when he tries to go over board with the romance thing. Could you be this way also? If so, try not to laugh too loud, the poor guy is trying so hard! Best of wishes for you and your romantic guy!
2007-02-06 11:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not weird. you are probably just feeling nervous and maybe a little shy.be honest with him that all the romantic attention is making you a little uncomfortable for whatever reason. he should understand-he seems caring and sweet. also, approach him in some small romantic ways sometimes-im sure he would like it and it would make you feel more in control of the situation. you don't have to only have a romantic dinner on Valentine's day-make it for when you both are off and can enjoy the moment.
2007-02-06 11:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by patriots fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going on 4 years with a man like that he is perfect in every way and I love him dearly I had the same problem I got embarrassed because I wasn't used to hearing those things and many times I still laugh when he says those things but from the start I told him it embarrasses me and why but at the same time it makes me feel really good so I don't want him to ever stop I'll never have to wonder if he loves me, so I say enjoy it.
2007-02-06 11:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcavebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you are ...a man or a woman or both you both should just seize the moment. most people would give their eye teeth to have what you got going..don't blow it!(no pun intended) but if you have so many questions at 29 you must have led a sheltered life.
but it happens. you sound like a late bloomer...better late then never...with that go for the gusto and take the bull by the horns...have fun with it as there is little real romance after marriage or a commitment..trust me...been there and done that three times...and would go for more as its the journey in life and not the destination that matters...but you already know this and are just playing us? right..but have fun guy or gal ...Semper Fi
2007-02-06 11:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your not used to being romantic, and it's throwing you off a little. Just go with the flow and enjoy every minute! Sounds like you have a keeper to me. (By the way, I don't think it matters if you are a girl or guy...as someone stated earlier.)
2007-02-06 11:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,,,believe me,,this guy si of the old school of truly romantics. You just don't find them around much anymore. I think you should hold onto him like super glue on your fingers. Of course he might be too good to be true but I guess you will have to let time tell here...
2007-02-06 10:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him over to your place for a romantic dinner after you both get done with work...pizza and beer can be romantic.
2007-02-06 10:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it wash over you. Yes, it takes adjusting, but it is completely worth it. Try not to embarass him by laughing all the time, but once in a while you can tell him if something is too over the top. Enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-02-06 10:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
it is okay to be embarrassed about affection. several people are embarrassed abut it they feel that that kind of thing should be done only in the privacy of there homes. but think about the way he feels he wants the whole world to see the affection he has for the persons he loves. and he is not afraid to express it.just ask him to tone it down some.
2007-02-06 11:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋