My hubby is a perfect caring and loving person, but when it comes to sex. he does not need any. he can stay without it for month and I am just the opposite. I think about it every second of day. I am getting less and less attracted to him and just fantasize of someone who can;t get enough of me and make me feel desired. i am thinkng to make him see a doctor, but still i do not feel attracted to him anymore. I love him in every other way. What should I do?
2007-02-06 02:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your sexual needs are not being fulfilled. I don't question your integrity, but you're a human being and you need to acknowledge those needs. People that are going through similar situations are left prone to seeking some sort of sexual satisfaction in another. You don't want that. Seek sex therapy and/or medical advice, for both of you together.
2007-02-06 02:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you love your husband, give him a chance as mentioned take him to a doctor, this should not be a big problem, try to dress sexily, and prance around him in skimpy and sexy ling ere that should do the trick, although I agree sex and passion is very important but at the same time love and caring is much more important, come to think of it the actual act of making love would be only 10 to 15 minutes a day, this is also only a body function to which we give more importance than the other body functions.
I may be old fashioned,but I feel a marriage must not disintegrate just for the sake of sex. Good luck.
2007-02-06 03:00:19 · answer #2 · answered by ramy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain the situation to your doctor and get some viagra for your husband and work out a deal that he is ok with.
He may have an erectile problem, but a man has responsibilities and obligations to his wife that are important. Sex is one of those duties that if not taken care of may lead to a slow deterioration of the relationship.
Viagra is a sure fix for you and may well be his best madicine
Good luck
2007-02-06 20:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this has degraded to a friendship and nothing more. You want sex and if he's not giving it to you, you may want to seek it elsewhere, either through an affair or divorce, if it means that much to you. Otherwise, you'd have to be content with an unfulfilled marriage for your part
2007-02-06 02:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres what i would do invite him over and wear someting super sexy totally irrasistible and hell see u then drag him into ur bed room start makin out and then make him super horney but on the other hand u could tell him u would like to have sex more often sooo that he nos how u feel
2007-02-06 02:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship can survive if you are willing to live your life this way with him. Since you do not sound happy, I think you should explain to him how you feel so he is aware that this is bothering you.
2007-02-06 02:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, basically, "I want him to want me, but I don't actually want to have sex with him, but I want him to want me" Wow, you don't even sound like you love him.
2007-02-06 02:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋