We have been friends for about a year and two months ago I started to have more feelings for her.I have not asked a girl out in a while so maybe you could give me some advice to or advice to know if she likes me.Thank you for your help.
2007-02-06 02:38:15 · 14 answers · asked by Christian D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you have to be honest with yourself.
Does she like you as a friend or have you picked up a vibe that she's interested in you, too?
The best way is to check with her other friends and gauge their interests.
They'll be more honest with you than you think.
From there, ask her to out and go somewhere...like Chili's or something...get drinks and eat appetizers and be totally upfront with her about your feelings.
If she's a true friend, she'll let you know if she's interested or not. The trick is not to be offended if she's not interested. That's when you know if you were just there for the pootang or if you're really her friend. It'll come back around to fruition in due time..
2007-02-06 02:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christian. Ask the young lady out. take her movie, diner dancing then park and make out. If she kisses you back you know she is got the hots for you. If she is a wet blanket and turn treats you like her kid brother then you know she is just a friend and no more. Heck, a guy chases a women until she catches him.
I don't know what you are gonna do but I wish I was in your shoes. Getting there is half the fun. Enjoy your youth...as I believe youth is wasted on the young...Live Laugh Love often
2007-02-06 10:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now christian,
if you have been friends with this girl for a year n 2 months, then you already know much of what she likes and what she doesnt.
you are lucky to ask at this time because valentine is coming. how does she like guys dressed,behave, talk? why dont you do that this valentine with a big smile.
and you know, she will love having you cos you have been friends for long.she cant have you as a friend for all that long if she doesnt like you.a rose will add more
2007-02-06 11:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous... ask her if you could see her for a second. Then, arrive fully dressed in a suit and a single rose. You will find out that the gesture goes a long way, even if she wasn't thinking of you. Don't let any rejection deter you... be persistent and keep being sweet.
2007-02-06 10:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't even know, none of us will be able to know.
Assume she likes you. Ask her out. Even if she doesn't like you that much, exuding that confidence might really spark some interest in you from her. If you don't go for it, you'll probably run into her later in life, admit it, and she'll ask you why in the Hell you didn't speak up.
2007-02-06 10:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best in trying to maker her laugh...smile all time, and make her giggle...and try to find out if she's checking you out and try to make eye contact from far away....e.g.if you are in the other corner of the same room or so...and see how long it lasts...adn fo coursee if that is followed up with a smile...positivepositive...but do make sure she understands you want somewething more form her...not jsut her friendship...
2007-02-06 10:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is totally flirt around u then ill say she likes u but also u could ask someone who nos her to ask her it sounds stupid but girls tell other girls everything and well if in that case she does like u i would buy her 1 rose and meet her somewhere and ask if she wanted to go out with u that would be super cute and also on the other hand it could be like me and my best friend he liks me but i only see him as a friend
2007-02-06 10:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine's day is coming up so do something. Give a small valentine like some thing she likes and see how she reacts. You know, send her small signs and see if she react back
2007-02-06 10:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Beth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids hve these problems all the time try speaking to her bestfreind and cing or ask her if she likes anyone or somthing like that the friend thing usally works out good luck
2007-02-06 10:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by nicole m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should wait a whail to see if she shows you any affection then if you start to know 4 sho dat she likes you den just go 4 it
2007-02-06 10:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋