I dated this guy from June to Nov before he broke things off in Dec. When we dated, he treated me like a g/f (always paying, taking me to meet his mom out of state, etc.), but since we were not officially together, I took things slow & we never had sex, but we fooled around.
When he broke things off, he said there was no spark, that we were great friends & he could tell me anything. I found out a few weeks after he broke things off, he was seeing another girl & I assumed he had dumped me b/c of sex.
Last night he called me & asked me if I was seeing anyone now. Then he said he wasn't talking to that girl anymore, & that he wanted to be single for awhile, but not forever. In the very next breath, he asked me how many years of school I had left & what my plans were. He was talking about this summer & whether we hang out like last summer & he talked about last Feb when we first met.
What his is deal? Does he care about me? What are his intentions? How should I handle this?
2007-02-06 02:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Ashes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he liked you but liked the other girl more and went with her. Then things didn't work out with her, now he wants to get back with you. If you have feelings for him, give him another shot. If you don't, move on.
2007-02-06 02:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was with you. Then broke off bcoz he wanted to take a chance for whatever reason (lack of sex or not) with someone else. And now that that relationship didn't work out, he's calling you?! That's desperation. He maybe charming but I don't think you should fall for it. Move on & surely you'll find someone better than someone who'll dump you for someone else ( that is what he did no matter how me may have said it being about being able to be just good friends with you!). So let him know that you are not interested; not now, not even in the future because you are want to find someone else. Someone better!
2007-02-06 11:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't even bother to read a sentence other than the question but I can say this. He is back in your life because you are allowing it. You are the one that has to establish what his intentions are. You know him better than us don't you? Trust your gut not your fears. Also if he doesn't say it don't read into things and do this connect the dots thing you women love to do.
Laters.....hope I was able to help.
2007-02-06 10:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really might have feelings for you. Good for you for taking it slow! All lasting relationships are based on friendship and trust, so, if you choose to hang out with him again, get a feel for how much you really trust him, and what kind of relationship you both would like to have.
2007-02-06 10:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by rocketgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his intentions are. He's saying he wants to stay single so that indicates that he wants a friend..possibly with privledges.
2007-02-06 10:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him. He's a loser (no offense to him, seriously). He runs from girl to girl, and as soon as someone else pretty comes along he'll dump you and go with her...etc. My suggestion would be to stay away from him. I don't want you to get hurt.
2007-02-06 10:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes lonely i had a guy whose .broke up with his g/f and he knew I had feelings for him and came to me. I rejected him for ignorning me for months like a dick and he got back with her. Found out later she ended up cheating on him...Karma.
2007-02-06 10:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by johm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just seems like he is just making conversation with you. Take it with a grain of salt and keep it pushing.
2007-02-06 10:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Meka_Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really sounds like a rebound .. i would stay well clear ... guy sounds like hes messing with your head ... if he left you for someone elsse ones he will do it again i promise you that !!!
2007-02-06 10:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Drew G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lonely and is wondering if you are lonely enough to get back together with him.
2007-02-06 10:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋