2007-02-06 02:19:05 · 16 answers · asked by Yoga sudhesh 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
it is best if you be quiet,because by this you will gain the confidence tha t you can control anger and the opposition will get tired soon by no response from you,cos they like you to be angry. Being angry also affects your mental and physical health.
Be Calm.
2007-02-06 14:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by A Kid Student 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on relations. If any outsider says, I immediately react / shout / teach him a lesson. If same slogan is from wife / children, I accept comliments. If I react, I will have to listen - Umeed se dugna.
Speaker may be fool. If he is fool, do not react. If he is wise / wife, keep quiet.
2007-02-07 03:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on who says it. If my husband, or my daughter, or my best friend, or one of the elders in my congregation says it, then perhaps I need to keep quiet and listen. If it's someone I don't know, or don't care about their opinion, then I REALLY don't care about their opinion! If they don't eat at my table, pay my bills, or sleep beside me in the night - WHO CARES what someone calls me? BAD is definitely not the worst thing anyone has ever said about me, or called me!
2007-02-06 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by themom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if some one says u r bad thn i dont think u need to bother at all.
it is a rude remark and hurts too.
and if a senseless person who doesn't bother abt ur feelings blurts out some nonsense then thr is no need to any pay attention to those mean words.
just ignore and tell him/her to keep her opinion to himself/herself and tht u dont care wht she /he feels about u!
and also make it clear that it doesn't take much for anyone to talk bad of the other person.and tht its only one's decency that prevents us from being rude or impolite to anyone.
and no one has any right to hurt or upset or humiliate anyone with rude remarks.
it's okay if we cant give happiness to others. but we definitely shouldnot be the reason for some one's unhappiness.
2007-02-06 12:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by ☆| raji |☆ says let's make life beautiful! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terms like "bad" and "good" are judgment calls made from people who subjectively labeling you. Who put them in charge of defining who you are as a person? If someone says that I am bad, I go on about my day and say to myself, "I wonder what's going on in that person's life to cause him/her to be so critical? You get to decide for yourself who you are in terms of favorable or unfavorable attributes. That said, if you are the type of person who goes around purposely trying to hurt other people then I might question myself in terms of is this behavior psychologically healthy. But overall, other people usually have a motive when they describe you in negative ways and most often it is used to try to make you feel bad about yourself, which in turn really means that they feel bad about themselves.
2007-02-06 12:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find whose that person..
*IF he/she is ur friend/family members.. then react to it based on what they are refering to.. If their opinion is right ,then i'll try to change myself.. else explain them the righteous on my side and make them understand that they have mistaken me..
*If it is my colleague/higher official i'll in a polite manner that there wont be any future probs between both of us..
*If it is enemy no need for explanation..
2007-02-11 02:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by anjali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep quiet before that person do something worst than asking you to keep quiet.
2007-02-06 10:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by what hack? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is this. In a calm voice, I'd say "I'm sorry you feel that way, I don't. I have done nothing that in any way can be construed as bad".
2007-02-06 10:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would probably react and be angry but would try to confront person find out what there issue and problem is and try to settle it calmly and if cant get settled calmly walk away inless I had to defend myself or someone else meaning protecting
2007-02-06 10:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just smile, think inside what he means.
ask your "self", are you really so (in what context he is saying you bad) ?
try to change if your SELF says yes.
and thanks him from bottom of heart for saying so.
but if comment is baseless ignore it, donnot get disturbed your SELF.
Say INSIDE " hathi chale apne gatse XXXX BHUNKE hazar" one who is with broad mind never minds bad comments from triffles.
2007-02-11 09:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by narendra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋