Why can't I get with certain types of girls?

Question

I was at a party the other day, and there was this guy and his lady friend there. They were kind of skater/snowboarder ish, like they were in to that kind of stuff. I made eye contact with the girl. We were definitely attracted to each other. I never talked to either of them, but I have been very bummed out ever since then. It really reminded me of my younger years when I was into that sort of thing; however when I was in high school, I was painfully shy, and never had a girl like that. Although she wasn't that much younger than me, I still feel like a girl like that is beyond my reach. I have hooked up with 6 foot tall runway models from France, but when it comes to a girl like that - modest, shy, tomboyish, hometown girl - all my confidence escapes me. I have know a lot of girls like that, but it never goes anywhere. I don't like pigeon holing women like this, but in my case they always seem to be similar. Why do I feel so down about this? Why can't I get with girls like that?

Answer 1

u can...if thats what you want.....consider yourself luck..at least you know what kind of girl you want...i have found that you always get exactually what you want - just not when you think you want it...hang in there...she is out there....as a matter of fact that describes alot of women, so you have many to choose from..heck - that just about descibes me...so i know there must be plenty of us...lol

Answer 2

LOL...UHM well i think the probably is you like them so much, you get shy, and dont know how to pursue them. It seems to me that they are more your type than anything, so everything matters. So on that note stop being shy and go for it, do something different for a change and be a GOGETHER cause if you dont then your going to keep dreaming, and wondering about it. so take charge

Answer 3

Come on now stop letting shyness overcome you? You can't grasp a dream unless you are reaching for it.

Answer 4

Go back to your drink, and leave those girls to us men.