I dont want to play games, and we are both shy. But I'm trying to let him no that I dig him. I dont want to pplay games, but should I?
2007-02-06 02:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont "play games" but dont be too eager either. Guys like a bit of a challenge. Show him subtly that you like him. Flirt but dont over do it. He will become intrigued by you, and the little bit of you that you are leaving a mystery. Theres no need to play games and it sets a bad tone for the rest of the relationship. Just be yourself and dont seem like you want to jump into anything to quickly as that can scare guys off. Good luck!
2007-02-06 02:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫♥ Crystal ♥♫♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a few suggestions no bad games at least may give the mixed messages...BUT ever hear the term "actions speak louder than words" well ur both shy so what a perfect way,
body language use ur eyes, smile, and emails w/flirts or cards maybe some kind of intense sensual music and be playful use ur imagination.....
if your not getting same feed back ,
dont beg get over it an meet another or two or three ..good luck
2007-02-06 10:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by NatureOrNurture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love 101: I'm suggesting that anyone, in your situation. Look at what you really want. If you wanna go, Bang-Bang with this guy. You're gonna get what you give. But if you wanna find True Love. It has to come from the Heart. Yours and His. If either is not in it? It's a Dead-End Street. If you Love the Guy? Your Heart will tell his. If he's in Love with your Heat? It'll pick up the signals. Good Luck!
2007-02-06 10:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games, but like you said your still getting to know each other. He might not have the same feelings yet or know enough about you to decide how he feels. Maybe he feels the same. If you seriously don't want to play games, be direct. Tell him you like him and want to know if there is a possibility of being more than friends. There's nothing to fear but rejection and being rejected is better than have to live your life asking what if.
2007-02-06 10:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be honest with him, but wait a little while try to get to know him a little bit better before you know how you feel. When you do want to tell him write him a letter, that is the best way to let all your feeling out.
2007-02-06 10:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Meka_Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.. dont play too many games cuz then some guys just give up.. if u really like him and ur shy text him or email him and say how u feel about this whole thingg ;) good luck
2007-02-06 10:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move, whether it be a small move or a big move, if he is shy too then maybe a little sign from you that you like him is all he needs to give himself a little more confidence to open up to you as well.
2007-02-06 10:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by billyguitarfx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him hit it and it will be all good
nothing says i dig youy like sweet hot warm juicy apple pie
2007-02-06 10:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by hoehoe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him --- he will know very quickly that you do like him and you will know if he likes you ---- just talk get to know him find out if you can laugh together ---- best wishes
2007-02-06 10:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be up front and honest with him.
2007-02-06 10:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋