O.k, my boyfriend just dumped me and I reeeeealy like him. I still have feelings for him even if he cheated on me. The bad thing is one of my friends asked him out when we were still dating. I need some help getting over it.
2007-02-06 02:08:31 · 14 answers · asked by Kupkakez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get some ice cream and watch a chick flick
2007-02-06 02:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young so I will give you some good advice. Forget about the cheater and move on. Don't even bother trying to get him jealous. That's just immature. Find a guy that will respect you and won't cheat on you. There are tons of guys out there and not all of them cheat. You have what seems like a lifetime to find the right guy. No need to rush. Just make sure that your happiness comes first.
2007-02-06 10:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to just keep busy with other stuff and do really good things for yourself. Get a part-time job, start working out, take guitar lessons...just something cool and fun to occupy your time and your mind. And while you're at it, buy yourself some new clothes or get your hair done or a massage--things that will make you feel good and pampered. And when you're ready, start checking out other guys. This jerk isn't the only fish in the sea. (And that friend isn't much of a friend either.)
2007-02-06 10:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by CrysV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you?? then i wouldn't want him around me. any one who cheats isn't worth keeping. and the friend who asked him out while you were still together?? i would dump her too because she isn't a friend. sit down and write out the pros and cons of wanting to be with this guy. look in a mirror and tell yourself that you are worth more than a having a cheater, because you are. put yourself into activities that will keep you from thinking about him. if you should run into him, tell him calmly how you feel about what he did, wish him well and walk away from him. this will get him thinking about his own actions if he is really any kind of a man, it should help him to change his ways. good luck and may you find true happiness with some one who values you for who you are.
2007-02-06 10:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by linda k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone disrespect you like that, you're just torturing yourself emotionally. Don't waste your time on a person like that. Take some time out for yourself make new friends, travel, go to the spa, pamper yourself. In due time you'll meet someone new. Whatever you do don't rush into another relationship, it won't be fair to the other person. Give yourself time to heal emotionally, get to know yourself better.
2007-02-06 10:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by channel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is "no" excuse for cheating, that in itself should make you realize you deserve better. Why would you want someone who would cheat, if you take him back, he'll do it again. The problem is women are too forgiving of cheating men and they take them back then they cheat again and again. If he's dating one of your friends, that's pathetic. Drop this guy, hang out with your girlfriends, he's a loser.
2007-02-06 10:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend
i dated this guy who really ruined my life.he cheated on me with my friend. i droped my girlfriend because of what she did and later got back with the guy cos i loved him
little did i know he would take advantage of the situation after he said he was sorry more than enough.
i request u my friend,do not accept him even if he comes back to you. he has cheated on you and he will continue and especially when you lower yourself to accept him.
get it from me,dont learn it the hard way cos you wouldnt want to know what happened to me.but i moved on later and am happy now.
please dont give it a chance at all.
2007-02-06 10:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his friend out - no no no dont do that, you need to just find a guy who will care about you and only you - it's hard. Don't keep looking for love let it find you - trust me it comes when you least expect it - HANG IN THERE
2007-02-06 10:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and hang with your girlfriends. meet lots of guys who will ogle over you and you'll know that there are many men out there who desire you.
take your time healing. when you feel like calling him, don't. just WRITE. write a lot. write to him. just don't send it. best friend is not a best friend if she does that. find new friends. ones who'll find guys with you. :) good luck!
2007-02-06 10:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Doitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats okay i had 7000000 guys break up with me at once you know what i siad.....................screw you country of austrailia i don't need none o yall smell me if i can break up with a whole country then darn i am smooth yet rough
2007-02-06 10:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by gay pharoah tha don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋