How can you repair a relationship after harsh words have been spoken ?

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And how can you make your boyfriend fall in love with you again ?

Answer 1

Words words words.
These are the wolds greatest saboteurs and often cannot be taken back.
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How you deal with the answers here has the power to make or break how your love life survives the turmoils of relationships.
It may be too late to repair the damage, but not too late to change the part you play in conflict.
Learn from the problem and trust that the universe has not forsaken you. Be wise be happy

Answer 2

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How can you repair a relationship after harsh words have been spoken ?
And how can you make your boyfriend fall in love with you again ?

Answer 3

You need to first honor a cool down period.

I am not sure how damaging these words were, but let's assume that on a scale from 1 to 10..this is atleast an 8. I'm sure he's still in love with you, though...I bet he's just angry.

Once you've both let several days pass, I would invite him to a conversation...a dinner or some place that evokes good memories for the both of you (like a place where you guys love to go)...just to set the mood.

Look him in his eyes, and spill your guts. Show your vulnerable side. Let him know that you were angry and you didn't mean to say such awful things. Be sincere!!! Reiterate just how much he means to you. Reinforce your feelings for him, and promise that you will work on your communication with each other, and live up to that.

And do everything in your power to show him that you're sincere. Guys are visual creatures....they need to be shown your level of sincerity.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 4

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Dear Lily, All of us have the ability to really hurt our partners when angry by using words that would never pass our lips in the ordinary course of daily living. Cruel words can hurt a heart as much as a sharp knife can hurt a body. Think about all the things that have been said to you in your life about yourself. I would be willing to bet that the things you remember most easily and quickly are the mean, unkind things that others have said to you. They can still hurt years later. You can't forget them and they cannot be taken back. Down deep inside where we all live, we wonder if the person who said those words really does think that way. Your boyfriend is wondering these things and he has good reason. IF you want to repair your relationship, you must learn to control what you say to him. You must remember his feelings and if it would hurt you, you must not say it to him. There is a famous quote from an old movie: "Love means never having to say you're sorry." The reason you should never have to say you're sorry when you love someone is that you are careful not to hurt them - with words or actions. So, learn to think before you speak in anger. It's good to learn self control. You can do it. I know you care because you are already wondering and asking if you should do something. Yes, you should and yes, you can do it. :)

Answer 5

Harsh words are hard to forgwet but it can be done if both people are willing to forgive and put the past behind you and start over again. As for making someone fall in love with you again....I don't think you can MAKE anyone fall in love. Being yourself should be enough and if it's not, then this isn't the right guy for you.

Answer 6

I see it as if someone can fall out of love with you just like that, then they didn't really love you in the first place. You can't just fall out of love with someone that you claim to really love. I think you two need to sit down and talk about the situation and decide whether it's worth it to get back together or should you two just stay apart. If he doesn't love you after all of that went down, then maybe it's not worth wasting any more time on. Just do whatever will make you happy.

Answer 7

Apologise. It may be difficult - especially if you think that he was in the wrong but if it is worth it then do it.

You can't make anyone fall in love with you - it just has to happen... I doubt that if you have had an argument he has automatically fallen out of love with you because it does take time for that to happen... Like I say - just apologise...

Good luck :-)

Answer 8

It really depends on what the harsh words were and how they were said. And, both people need to be in agreement.

Answer 9

Sometimes you can't. If things were so bad they got that out of hand the first time, who's to say it won't happen again? Maybe even worse the next time?

Answer 10

of course you can --- both parties must want to fix it up and go back to where it started and find the qualities you fell in love with ---- best wishes