My buddy of 15 years is engaged to this girl from Ukraine. They've been together for about 3 years. The other night, I decided to just stop by their apartment to say hello, but my homeboy was at the hospital bc his mom was sick... anyway, his gf invites me in and well... one thing led to another and before I realized what happened, it had already happened...
It was just sex, and no emotional attachment, so what's the big deal? I hope she doesn't tell my dude-friend, but even if he finds out, do you think he'll be cool w/ it and brush it off his shoulders?
2007-02-06 02:01:13 · 26 answers · asked by bruce_lee_headache 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my friends have a rule that if one of our girls tries to sleep with another one of us, we do it hard and long, and then tell the dude. bro.. you can't let this girl get married to him because if it happened with you, his best friend, it'll happen (or has happened) with others. you may lose contact with this guy for a few months if you tell him but from EVERY point of view, you f*cked up. gotta move forwards from here.. and to let your friend marry someone that's cheating on him to save your own *** is VERY selfish and if he were to ever find out about it through another person (and women DO talk...), it would destroy your friendship with him for the rest of your lives. just let him know that you did it and it was a mistake but she was attractive and there was no reason to pass up sex like that with someone that he shouldn't be putting his trust in to anyways
just my .02.. i'm not in your shoes, but i've been there and there is no lying your way out of it.
2007-02-06 02:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Max R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dudefriend, will certainly be cool with it., next time you all are out for drinks, or dinner , and you go home and around 2.30 to 4.00 in am, start vomiting violently, and there is some blood in the vomit, you will know he slipped you some awful toxic stuff. But no big deal. Peace.
2007-02-06 02:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what will u feel if ur best friend have sex with ur girlfriend... some more when it is during the time tt u need much emotion support frm her as ur mum is in hospital or smt happen tt cos u to be unhappy... but both of them say it is just sex..
2007-02-06 02:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a big deal .If thats your best friend then you should not have did that.He might be mad at both of you for what happen between yall.It might not be a good idea to let him find out.
2007-02-06 02:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Layla sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You betrayed your friend. He will care...you you have thought with the head on your shoulders first. Too late and now you and her will have to face the consequences. He will not brush it off...guys are really sensitive about things like this.
2007-02-06 02:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how long will she be here? Ask her if she is planning on telling him.If the sex was better than his she will tell, if not she won't tell! I don't think he was your best friend ! If so you would not have done this and when you tell your other friends they are not going to trust you,so then you are not going to have any friends!
2007-02-06 02:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by tosha38401 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has used that excuse several times...her b/f is at the hospital...she just relies on it to get a bit more than her b/f can give her. He's okay with it because he videotaped the encounter. Now go get checked for strange diseases.
2007-02-06 02:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the crappiest thing I have ever heard!! Men need to learn to think with the head on top of their shoulders!!!!! Oh, she is going to tell eventually......woman cannot live with that guilt. Well, I am pretty sure you just lost a friend because you followed your pecker! good luck
2007-02-06 02:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you have to put yourself in his shoes? would you be mad if he did it to you? I mean you are correct love is different then sex but that doesn't mean he isn't gonna wanna kill you. If I were you I would tell him that you did it to see if she was gonna be faithfull to him and that she failed the test. Put all of the blame on her...it may be your only way out.
2007-02-06 02:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terrible, where is all the loyalty and self respect in todays society, and im only 24!!!
2007-02-06 02:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by nightshifter12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋