ive been with robbie for 6 years,i hada bortion in 2005 which broke my heart and i regret it i only did it for him,now i really want a child hes does not he does not know as it will drive him away even more...he never wants sex with me i dont think he knows i want ababy i thought it was my weight im 12 stone and 22 he told me the other day im ugly....................
2007-02-06 01:57:45 · 27 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi people he does not treat me bad,i tell him hes ugly ....but i know he means it he said i have a big nose,he wants me 2 lose 2 stone he is not cheating ...i live in uk
2007-02-06 02:08:08 · update #1
i am not dumping him i simply want to know how he could find me attractive again god i call him ugly 2
2007-02-06 21:40:25 · update #2
He is not having sex with you because he is having sex with somebody else. Dump him, and move on.
(Just My Opinion)
2007-02-06 02:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Christmas Light Guy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably interested in some other girl or girls and not into you anymore. The guy is a jerk and a coward. The least he could do is be honest: look, this is how I feel, let's have a break. But no, the jerks always have to play it as if they are the victims. The moment your man doesn't give you affection and attention is because he's not into you anymore, just like if you were dating. I suggest that you are the better person in this relationship and tell him that you don't want him anymore because he hasn't been affectionate and giving you attention, you hate to be treated like a doormat, so you're falling out of love with him. Give yourself the value you deserve and show your daughter how does one love oneself in life and how that's the most important thing one can do.
2016-05-23 23:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man... Robbie has issues. I know this is hard to grasp but when your lover tells you that youre ugly its time to move on. 6 years is a long time but you need someone with the same life objectives. If Robbie doesnt want kids and says that your ugly... must I say more?
2007-02-06 02:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Paul K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or, pack his crap up and throw it out on the lawn...change the lock, and I wouldn't give him any warning. I wouldn't speak to him or have anything more to do with him.
Life is too short to be wasting with that looser. He is probably banging someone else...or he is gay. Seriously.
You need to move on. You will find someone that will appreciate the wonderful and beautiful person you are. Hopefully, you will find YOU, as well.
Good luck with what ever you do...please don't have a child with him or seek to do that. It will only lead to a miserable life. Life is so much more fun! You want a good Daddy for your kids, no? He would be a looser. He is, already.
2007-02-06 02:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe it's time for you to leave this guy if he's calling you ugly and making you get an abortion. You want kids and he doesn't so maybe it's time for you to move on and find someone who wants kids like you. He probably doesn't have sex with you because he doesn't want you to get pregnant again and if your really unhappy then you know what you have to do, tell him how you really feel and if he loves you he will understand. But i really think he's a jerk and you should really move on.
2007-02-06 02:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by purplerose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight !!!
1. You and bf are shacking up
2. You want baby
3. He don't want baby
4. He thinks you're ugly
Haven't you ever heard of the song "Love and Marriage"? If you 2 can't commit to that in the beginning, you're just shacking up until something better comes along. Now you know.
2007-02-06 02:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and you still want this guy in your life? well be ready for a lifetime of abuse and heartache. be glad you do not have a child with this man. over 50% of the children born in the US are to single moms... and guess you are in UK? well, you need a man like this like a fish needs a bicycle. things are bad for you but this type of man can only bring you a lifetime of regret.
Most people live their lives in quiet desperation. Learn to live without people in your life that bring you down. enough said
2007-02-06 02:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you that your Ugly?! What are you still doing with him!
Change the locks and get yourself a new man who DOES want a baby and treat you like a princess.
2007-02-06 02:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you have an abortion for a man? That is just stupid. You need to leave Robbie for someone that will treat you right and love you for who you are.
2007-02-06 02:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone then and go find someone that wants the same thing you want. I know that is easier said than done because i am in a similar situation that is why I can say that
2007-02-06 02:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by tre_132mp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if he don't show you any attention, leave. If you're not married, you have no obligation to him. There are many men out there that want kids and will love you at the same time!
Good luck!
2007-02-06 02:01:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋