Please answer if you are one of theose girl-people who gets their hair cut/permed/ styled/blue-rinsed whatever every week or two or six, but always get the same style/colour etc.
Why do you ask "what do you think of my hair-do?" of your menfolk? We don't care, it's ongoing maintenance in our lives. Would you like us to ask for compliments every time we remember to tie our shoelaces or brush our teeth?
2007-02-06 01:53:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Ok girls, I'n gonna let you into a little secret, pay attention. Most of us have been through the "You don't say you love me anymore" and "does my bum look fat in this?" rigmarole.
Eventually, we make diary notes to say "I love you" daily or weekly or monthly, whatever is appropriate. When we do, you come back with "You're just saying that" (to get leg-over, or a pass for a night in the pub sorta thing).
How special would it be if, maybe only once or twice a year, your guy genuinely had his jaw hit the floor when you walked in the room?
2007-02-06 02:11:09 · update #1
yes, it would bring our confidence up and help us to feel better about our selves and not worry about it being ugly! Hope I could Help! Happy Valentine's Day!
2007-02-06 02:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by buttercup_puppylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do people still do that? I mean really, are there still women out there who get the same thing done everytime?
As for complimenting you/men........when you get to the stage where you can take a compliment without blushing or saying something stupid back...you'll get more. When i used to tell guys I worked with, or even friends, that there shirt was a good colour for them or that they looked really good in something, they always blustered some excuse!! You give up doing after that.Compliments are great, if they are honest and spontanious, otherwise don't bother. Luckily for me I've got friends who are both and I love to be told I look good when I've made the extra effort.
Which I always do by the way...its called self esteem!
2007-02-06 11:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there to answer your question honestly just let me say are you paying enough attention to your partner, I'm not criticising you or being bitchy just is your lady mature, and maybe a little unsure of herself she might just need to know that your still looking we all love to be admired and I get the feeling that she maybe doing this to look nice for you, and just needs a Little reassurance that your still paying attention, I know you guy's are busy and believe that kind of thing doesn't matter but really it does to us women, we need to know you still find us attractive and it gives us a buzz and think about it for a minute, and I dont want to get to personal here but do you still do the deed in the bedroom a little attention in the right direction could get you a little more loving in all the right places so go ahead and pay attention to the lady quess what you might just benefit from it too, believe me my husband does If he puts the effort in to pay attention and make's me feel special I in turn make the effort where it counts for him
2007-02-06 10:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by yah yah sisterhood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have given up on the hair dies. I don't have that much grey.If i could afford to have my hair done once a week I would. But I get my hair trimmed and styled once a month. I have a hairstyle that I can wash and wear or just pull up off of my face.I have combs and can pull it to the back or up off to the top of my head.
2007-02-06 10:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know why, because we love attention, no matter how tenderly old she is, or vivously young she is we love attention. Now either you can give it willfully or you can have it taken right out of your wallet monthly that's called alimony
2007-02-06 09:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we want compliments and men dont get the hints when we r asking for 1
2007-02-06 10:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sometimes we are looking for a confidence booster. Humor us.
2007-02-06 09:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yea, we want to kno tht u still appreciate us..if u asked us, we would tell you u are tying your shoelaces beautifully...
2007-02-06 10:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by het.mari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
us ladies like to look good. and we want to know if guys think so too.
whats the big deal just say we do, and were happy. :)
2007-02-06 13:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ask because...We want to make sure that you guys are still aware of our existence.
2007-02-06 10:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋