2007-02-06 01:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by celine t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man its sad to see this happening every day. what is wrong with your bf i dont understand.nah he doesnt love you...i am soo sorry but its the truth..the only thing you could do is dump and dump him forever before he dumps you...
2007-02-06 02:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by unknown human 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!! You aren't ready. It's not a matter of age or level of maturity. You'll have alot of boyfriends that want you to have sex. You'll know when you find the right guy and when it's the right time. And when that time arrives, seek medical advice from your doctor first. Local health depts. see young patients and will keep your visits confidential. There's alot to inform yourself about prior to taking this big leap. Better safe than sorry!
2007-02-06 09:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let him pressure you into doing something your not ready for. It is much better to wait and have sex for the first time with someone you love and truly care about. SOmeone you are going to be with a long time. So be patient and wait until you are 100% comfortable with him and know he is around for the long haul. wait at least 6 months. it will be worth the wait i promise. if he keeps pressuring after you have said no, he is not the one . move on.
2007-02-06 09:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no? Seriously, this is a decision you need to make on your own. If you are scared, then tell him. He will understand, and if he keeps bringing it up, then you'll know he only wants you for sex.
2007-02-06 09:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!!! It's your body. How can you say you don't know what to do? You do what's right for you, not some sex hungry boy. That's why so many girls get in such deep emotional trouble. You have the right to say no and if he can't accept that, you shouldn't be calling him a boy"FRIEND". Why don't girls and women get this?
2007-02-06 09:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st how old are you? Your not ready if you scared just wait. You need to tell him how you feel and he doesn’t understand then move on. You’re just not ready for this step in your life.
Good luck
2007-02-06 09:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready yet - tell him that you are NOT READY. If he insists, terminate the relationship. This might sound too harsh and you might argue that you are madly in love with him. But, hey, if he loves you he shall have to do it ONLY WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE READY FOR IT.
2007-02-06 09:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
DON'T DO IT!!!!
WAIT TILL MARRIAGE!!!!
don't give your body to a man who hasn't earned it.
OF COURSE your boyfriend wants to have sex!
but you know what, when you guys break up in a year or two, he's going to sleep with the next one too.
don't be a notch on his belt!
2007-02-06 09:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by tatjana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont know what to do then do nothing ---- when you are ready for sex you will know its time --- dont stress and if the guy truly cares he will wait as long as you want ---- best wishes
2007-02-06 09:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared tell him you want to wait and ur not ready yet. If he cares, he will wait too
2007-02-06 09:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋