i never txt my ex gf and she txt me after 2 days can i get her back ?

Question

hi, my ex gf finished with me with 3 weeks ago over a silly argument at work. she got with me 3 weeks after splitting with her 4 year boyfriends. My gf says she likes me, has got feelings for me and also fancies but for now she can only give me friendship. i spoilt my gf with gifts, flowers chocolates etc and also stayed in contact with her quite alot. i txt her and rung her alot but i stopped txting and rining her for the past 2 days, so she txt me today saing if i was ok? and she was glad i was ok so on. Do you think she misses me ??? how can i get her back ?? I was too nice to my ex gf i gave her everything she wanted to from gifts to affection. i was with her 7 weeks and i never even slept with her, i never pestered her for sex nothing i just stood by her cos i genuinly liked her. i miss her too much and i wanan get back with her what do i do ? i fink i have been to nice to her and that may have put her off how do i get her back please help and u reckon she misses me

Answer 1

ask her for sex

Answer 2

1) It was a little harsh but not unjustified. 2) You can forgive her but staying friends? Not a good idea. Like you said, you're around her a lot and can't stop thinking about her. It is going to drive you nuts. 3) Yup, keeping your distance is the best choice. She's not remorseful, she's too proud to apologise, she sometimes has no feelings for you, likes you sometimes, don't give a hoot about your feelings, etc.... Now until she's done playing with your feelings & until you stop letting her do it, you're gonna suffer a long time. She can't decide if she likes you or not, she sleeps around, not remorseful,,,, how long do you want me to go on with this? There is no future at all in this ex-relationship. You don't have to tell her you forgive her. Tell yourself you forgive her. You're been nice and she gets nastier. Not worth your time anymore. Avoid her like the plague. Realise that, move on and find another girl who will like you, apologise when she's wrong, not sleep around, respect and take care of your feelings....

Answer 3

I reckon she misses you! Maybe...
What you can do is try and talk to her about how you feel about her. The way you have said it here. Get the response then am sure you can know if they are chances of getting back.
I think you are feeling a bit inbsecure that she might get back with her bf....immediately you talk over it you will feel better and it will show you the way. Remomber girls sometimes are pride....so you wouldnt know whether she still loves you or not. The fact that you spoiled her so much with chocs and flowers, she knows you love her and she is waiting that ypou weill go back. But when you talk you gonna know. Sometimes it not pride the fear to be rejected. Coz she might be thinking about having you back but she is scared that you might reject the idea.
Talk over it, and things wil be ok. Believe me. Gd luck take care

Answer 4

Did she text you back in the process of you blowing her up, cause if she didnt then it seems like she likes attention when you all of a sudden stop texting her, then she was like is you ok, of course you ok, you just got tired of trying with her, and she isn't really given you no attention like that. Number one rule is if someone isnt treating you how you treating them....you need to fall back, meaning chill out with all of that, becasue its not appreciated. if you calling her texting her, and she not really paying you no mind stop. She will realize that you were a good person and if it was meant she would come to you. I had a situation like this and the person did and still does exactly what you are doing to your gf. And i will have to tell that person to stop doing that because im not really caring, gifts, and being nice doesnt win people over, atleast not me, being yourself, and having a great personality is what wins most over. but think about that....Its all about how she is acting, you seem like a nice guy, but never do things thats not appreciated by other people, because then thats when people just use you. but she could possible miss you...Why dont you ask her, "Do you miss me"...then go from there...

Answer 5

1. Put a paragraph in there every once in a while.
2. She wants to be your friend; she doesn't want you back as a boyfriend.
3. She misses you because she wants to be your friend.
4. Hook-up is possible but extremely unlikely.

I would much rather barrel roll and find some new lady.

Answer 6

imo, just give her the time to think what she really wants. if she really misses you, every day that passes with no communication for you feels like years and before you know it she will be the one asking for a reconciliation

Answer 7

I thought i answered this question already.... actually i know i did... i said your better off leaving her be for a while let her sort herself out after such a long term relationship before you.