Do u think u can when it is so obvious they love each other
2007-02-06 00:46:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. if we really loved each other mutually thered have been no infidelity. **** excuses. its pretty naive and doomed to try to recover from someone cheating.
the guilt, the trust, the insecurities, fighting. its not worth it.
2007-02-06 00:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by cryingtree1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that happens is that you learn from it. But only if you are allowing yourself to open your eyes and take the blinkers off.
No matter what great times two people had/have, its still a fact that the liklihood of abuse of trust is gone forever.
And you never hear about ALL that happens either - just enough to cope with damage limitation in the wrongdoers eyes.
If both parties are doing it - slutting around - then maybe they are in appropriate sorroundings. Not too sure about that though.
2007-02-06 01:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jon H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually have had some, specially because my calm disbelief in something non secular or supernatural has curiously gotten to the countless women human beings I actually were in touch with. An offhand remark of mine, or some intimation of my finished lack of concept in an afterlife were often times adequate to reason what change into of direction somewhat an challenge with my better 1/2. frequently this did not ensue - i'm no longer vociferous about my lack of concept, and am the type of damn effective guy that women folk frequently forgive my atheism.
2016-11-02 11:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a sucker for staying in a relationship if I still love him... he could have cheated on me, but it doesn't stop me immediately from loving him... I don't think it's possible.
Alot of rebuilding when infidelity sets in. It takes two hands to clap... the cheater to ensure that he doesn't do it again, and the cheated to move on.
2007-02-06 00:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Once the trust is gone it will never come back. Infidelity is not something you get involved in if you really love someone.
2007-02-06 00:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was young and in love...teen through my twenties...I got over it and over it and over it until I realized I was risking MY life by accepting this behavior from a man that supposedly lovedme soo much. I am now a seen it all 37 year young woman who will drop a man in a hot second if he EVER cheats on me and I dont care if I love him more than anything. I will NOT tolerate disrespect in THAT manner EVER again.
2007-02-06 00:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you can. but whoever you cheated with should really play no part in your life after ( a friend, an ex, whatever) .
if people love each other you can get over most things ( even though it would be better if you didnt have to, but hey, were all human)
2007-02-06 00:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by ravey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are able to forgive and still have respect for each other and truly believe you can put it in the past then yes without a doubt it could still work
2007-02-06 00:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if both have done it then maybe,yes.then at least you wont always have one person sitting reflecting and always wondering and when there`s an argument it wont get thrown in the other persons face all the time.
2007-02-06 00:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by onlyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the people, it happened to me i never got over it and started to feel paranoid all the time once the trust is gone that's it
2007-02-06 00:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by SHY1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋