i love my girlfriend and i am scared to tell her my true feelings due to my past relationships because it seemed like everytime i gave my heart to a girl they ripped it out and broke it into a million pieces and i am scared she will do this what do i do in need of advice plz help????
2007-02-06 00:27:49 · 20 answers · asked by anthony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should try personality quizzes.then match them up.or if ur school has a dating website, go on and take it.
2007-02-06 00:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by i ♥ jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have went through exact same thing. How long have you been together. If have been together for awhile then you just need a pap talk for yourself.
Its very hard to do when you have had your heart broken. Remember she is NOT any one of those other girls. Your feeling for her are different, because you love her for different reasons, when you think about it. You never love any two people the same way...I'm not talking about amounts..just not in the same way or for the same reasons.
Your best bet is to be openly honest and tell her, but, also let her know that your struggling with a little bit because of the past. If she is the right girl she will understand where you are coming from.
2007-02-06 09:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...so nice.
Wait a bit if you feel scared. If you think she feels the same way and that she will not hurt you go ahead and tell her. In the meantime, it is not necessary to tell her in words. Show her with actions. Sometimes actions speak louder then words. Good luck!
2007-02-06 08:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your clingy and needy ways are what turn them off...seriously...how long have you been going out with this girl? how old are you? what exactly do you love about this girl?....YOU need to ask yourself these questions before you start with the "I love you" bit. Just like guys, if you start talking about love after the first date...it comes off as needy and creepy...and I can't blame anyone for wanting to leave you alone....if you have been going out for four months...seeing each other every day and spending real time together (not just getting in the sack) then MAYBE it is love and you can say so...
2007-02-06 08:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 1, what ever you decide to do take it slow. Women can be fickle, one day on one day off. Don't be too aloof, but let her know she's a lovely girl and fun to be with. Start from there and don't go much farther.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-06 08:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how u feel and see what happends not all girls do that to guys. U will never know how she feels or what will happen until u tell her. I'm sure she want treat u the way ur ex's did.
2007-02-06 08:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it like nikey, you can not live your whole life based on a few bad apples.
Thats apart of life you gotta be able to put yourself out there, I mean she may break your heart but better to have loved then not.
;-)
2007-02-06 08:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by dazed_and_confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how long have you been together if it has been a short while wait a bit..Otherwise it is a risk no matter what you do..If your worried tell her you like her alot but do not say " i love you" wait until she says it to you...Hope this helps somewhat
2007-02-06 08:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because that happened in your past relationships does not mean that will happen in the future you have to tell her how you feel and that your scared and tell her why she will understand good luck.
2007-02-06 08:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by fleo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man just relax . You must tell her about u r past relation if she have real love she will not go.If u do not tell this she will know about it in future it will effect u r life. so u must tell about it
2007-02-06 08:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sreekanth M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her or any other girl your heart. If you choose to own me, you don't have to offer me anything but a dog's bowl, a collar and leash. I'd love and obey you. E-mail me at:
larry_mira@yahoo.com
2007-02-06 08:31:21 · answer #11 · answered by Puppygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋