I was seeing my fiancee for two months before he proposed. I recently heard that he had been cheating and immediately kicked him out. Was I too harsh/ should I let him come home?
2007-02-06 00:26:15 · 20 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you! Alot of women wouldn't have had the nerve. No you weren't too harsh, and no, you shouldn't let him come back, unless you are still in love with him and are able to forgive and forget! If so, he better also be willing to earn your trust back, no matter how long it takes!! Good Luck!
2007-02-06 00:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you talk to him to get his side of the story or look into it to see if it was true.
You should have talked to him & given him the chance to defend himself against the alligations before deciding to kick him out.
If you did all that & believe he cheated & the trust is gone then yes you did the right thing.
2007-02-06 00:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd listen to his side of the story, just to make sure it's really true. If it's true, then it sounds reasonable to make a break, as you already did. If he cheated on you before you're even married, he's probably not going to change after you're married.
2007-02-06 00:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U heard?? Do u really have proof that he really cheated? If he really cheated then what u did is right...u don't have to let him go home...but otherwise, then ur making a huge mistake.
2007-02-06 00:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO! If any guy is low enough to propose to his gf whilst he's cheating on her he doesnt care. Im a guy and i am sad to admit i cheated on my girlfriend once. And i felt like **** afterwards. Never done it since and i dont plan to. It takes three seconds to say "Sorry, but i have a girlfriend:.
So you kick that sonuvabitch out and tell him to STAY out"
Regards,
Sillky
2007-02-06 00:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Zen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not too harsh, once a cheat always a cheat
2007-02-06 00:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by scorpiosa70 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come back home 4 what,let the cheater hang,go gal,live life happy not with a cheating man
2007-02-06 00:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you should know the reason that why he had been cheating....
There can be so many reasons. First of all, know the reason & if he had really been cheating then I think that you had to cicked him out. But first of all, know the truth.
2007-02-06 00:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by M.A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember two things believe half of what you hear and half of what you see. You should have sat him down and asked him and then make up your mind from there.
Good luck in what ever you do.
2007-02-06 00:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat! You would have to kick him out eventually 'just do it"!
2007-02-06 00:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Wendellp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋