Im seeing a guy who I think is still really attached to his ex. He makes a lot of effort to see me and contacts me frequently but is still very stand-offish and makes references to the ex often. Does he have interest in me or should I tell him to leave me alone?
2007-02-06 00:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is trying to have his cake and eat it too. I think you should let him go...........He is confused the truth is. He is trying to hold on to you just the fill the void right now. Find someone who is free, single and disengaged. It's so not worth the heartache trust me!!!
2007-02-06 00:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could say that and still be interest in you. That happends some time, people come out form a relationship and starts to compare or everything you do is a reference to them about the other person they were with. If you say he calls you and put effort in seeing you, her is interested in you. What you need to do is talk to him about it. And tell him that it bothers you or it makes you feel bad. Good Luck!
2007-02-06 08:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Majo's Project 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would just tell him to leave you alone cause sounds like he still loves his ex and your just wasting your time with him he wants his cake and eat it two ...you will only get hurt by him wanting his ex all the time tc
2007-02-06 08:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone as he is still hanging onto the past, his ex, and will never be able to really let go of her.
2007-02-06 08:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this one if it works! Ask someone to help you to see if he will be jealous if he saw you two are sweet. After observing him, it's up to you to decide. Try several trials to be sure about the answer.
2007-02-06 08:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by d4rkjed1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is genuinely interested in you, but may still have feeling for the ex. If you got together, would he run back to her if she asked??? Hmmmm..........
2007-02-06 08:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by scorpiosa70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how abt discussing this with him and if he really & honestly feels & belvs he shud/wants to gt bk wid her...den leave him...elz help him 4gt her create NEW memories 4 [U]&HIM and WITH him.
All the Best!!!
P.S:Nothing is easy but you've always got to make it happen so dat ltr it just seems like a breeze
P.P.S:Do you honestly like him so much to do all this?????
P.P.PS:Still all the best!
2007-02-06 08:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by I aM CrAzY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋