Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and right now he lives almost 3 hours aaway and i only see him like once a week. My parents are making me move to kentucky and he is going to college. I am scared that he wont be able to make time for me when he gets there. I am going to be a senior so we will only be apart for a year but i am still scared of this change. i really love him and i really want our relationship to work. does nyone have advice?
2007-02-06 00:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by bamf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is not a cheater, he is very old fashoned in his views about sex and one woman one man
2007-02-06 00:24:34 · update #1
Lots of people will tell u it won't work, thats bullshit. I've done long distance and i mean really long distance...it's 2 different country and i've friends who also had LDR and now happily married. If u really want ur relationship to work, it will work, of cos ur bf must have the same mind as urs. LDR can actually built up trust and love for each other...it's not hard. There is computer, cam, phone nowadays..which makes it much much easier. If he truly loves u, he will stay faithful and think of ways to meet up with u. Those who gives lame excuses like, ahh long distance, it won't work, its because he dun love that person at all. It's gonna be tough, but if ur positive abt it...it will workout just fine. This is the ultimate test to see if u both really love each other. Gd Luck!
2007-02-06 00:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships only work if you are truly serious about each other. Emails and skype can make distances seem shorter. There is also the wonderful world of cell phones and sms. Long weekends and semester breaks are always there for you to catch up with, and before you know it time will fly and the year will be over. If you both put your hearts into it this relationship can and will work. Say you can do it and do it!! All the best and remember true love never does come cheap!!!!
2007-02-06 08:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ansy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have been in a long distence relationship for 2 and a half year and still going so i would say that it can work but it is harder to keep the faith in your parter and it is hard to keep the relationship going
2007-02-06 08:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships don't do good and who know he might consider cheating on you when he goes to college
2007-02-06 08:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well its different when ur not there, and hes not there....u dont always know what the other person is thinking...
2007-02-06 08:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be it will no matter how far away from him you are :-)
2007-02-06 08:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋