my ex finished with me 4 weeks ago over an argument at work. She was with me for 8 weeks and got with me 4 weeks after leaving her 4 year bf. Over the past 8 weeks i have been with this girl i treated her like a princess, spoilt her with gifts i was tooo nice 2 her. Now wen i ask her to get back with me she says she likes me, she fancies me, and has got feelings for me but can only give me friendship for now. i really really like her what do i do ??? i used to txt her and ring her often, and now i have stopped doing that. i have not txt her for 2 days now and she hasnt either, my ex gf doesnt usually send sms first nobody, even if her best mate doesnt txt her she doesnt txt either. i want to give her some space but also find out if shes ok, how many days or weeks after should i txt to see if shes ok and if she is feeling different ? Also her parents are on holiday for a week so i know show wont miss my attention as much because she is enjoying her self while her parents are away! help
2007-02-05 23:55:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice would be dont try to mend a broken mirror you will only get hurt trying
2007-02-05 23:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may seem harsh but I don't think this girl is really interested in a relationship with you or it seems anyone right now, she has come out of a long term relationship and probably has a lot of mixed emotions at the moment ( have you heard the saying rebound??) that unfortunately is what anyone who gets with her will be at the moment and not Good grounds for a future relationship. My advice to you would be not to contact her at all I know this is hard as you want to know she is OK I understand that but you need to know if she is really in to you or if your just getting her through the break up if she likes you and really cares about you she will miss you and contact you then you will know it was from her not just her feeling she should be nice cause your a nice guy, give it time some things are meant to be others are not,I am sure you would rather know she is into you cause she likes you and not just someone who will pass the time and make her forget how she is really feeling, Its better now after a short time than say six months or a years time when your deeply in love with her be patient if she does not come back don't worry the right one is out there waiting for you.
2007-02-06 00:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't panic - sounds like you got it real bad. My advice to you would be to wait until she gets in touch with you - if she really likes you, eventually she will get in touch. Even if it takes four weeks. Also after breaking up with a boyfriend of four years - she probably has had enough of men for the time being and didn't want to be in another relationship, so don't blame yourself for the argument - it's not your fault.
Just sit tight, get on with your life and wait and see what happens - if it's meant to be then it will be, and all that!
Good luck - I know how hard it is! x
2007-02-06 00:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be sh*gging her ex, sorry, but that's the probably the truth.....
She's just come out of a 4 year relationship, and that's difficult to just forget and move on, she'll have put alot into it over the years and she probably can't be ar*ed to get heavy straight away. So she may well be having a few 'getting back together' sh*gs while her parents are away.....
2007-02-06 00:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by PvteFrazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait a day or two but yeah id did that same thing before and the girl saw me as a friend i kinda learned from that and tried not to be so nice. But why don't they wont 2 be treated nice we some wont them to have the best
2007-02-06 00:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space.
She was with a bloke for 4 years- thats along time.
You sound like a rebound thing.
She sounds like she wanted the attention/flattery off you to take her mind off her ex.
And its probably got a bit much for her.
Give her some space, and dont pressure her. If she wants you, she'll do so when shes ready.
2007-02-06 00:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she just left a 4 year relationship i can see why she's not ready to jump into something more serioes.. especially after a month of that..
i was with my ex for about 4 years.. and i didnt start seeing anybody for nearly 4 months..
a girl sometimes needs some time to herself to figure out what she really wants
2007-02-06 00:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were coming on a bit too strong for her.
Just give her some time to herself.
I think it's OK to text her 7 let her know your thinking of her & would like to hear from her .
After you do that then just wait until she is ready & I'm sure she will call.
2007-02-06 00:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, its conceivable, yet i would not attempt & screw his new courting up. do no longer hear to the persons who're saying that going lower back out with an ex by no potential works simply by fact it does. It in basic terms relies upon on the clarification why you the two broke up in the 1st place && if the two considered one of you're prepared to offer it yet another attempt. nonetheless in some circumstances its superb to maintain the previous in the previous. in basic terms you would be sure what you like. no person else can do this for you. stable success!!
2016-10-01 12:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be really desparate cos you have asked this question once.
Just go round there - ask her if she is still insterested.
Yes or No. If not walk away and give yourself time to
get over her. Then find someone else worthy of you!!!
Good Luck.......
(She could be enjoying herself with you while her parents are away)
2007-02-06 00:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you break up with him...if you did then he probably hates you! Like he'll mever talk to you again! and then you'll want him back forever and people will say he still likes you but you know he hates you and trhat he's not just hurt! God!! It was the biggest mistake of you're high school life and now you can't go back!! SORRY!
2007-02-05 23:58:54 · answer #11 · answered by -♥, Much Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋