I am still a virgin and proud of it, I am seeing a guy and I only see him like once a week as he works 7 days a week, he says he likes me and if he didnt he would tell me straight.I toId him that I am still a virgin and says he doesnt care whether I am a virgin, or is he just saying it to be polite maybe, or do you think he really does like me?
2007-02-05 23:49:39 · 18 answers · asked by MB2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just wants to FUNK you !
and be awarded the No 1 jersey !
:P
i say, if he's nice to you and treats you well, just give it to him and enjoy it !
2007-02-06 00:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow still a virgin at 30..well done (no seriously) im 17 and still a virgin and i hope to remain one for a while. i dont see why the whole virgin/not virgin should be an issue in a relationship of ppl ur age. if anything its a good thing... it means u'v made a decision and stuck by it for all these years, that's a very admirable trait!
but why did he feel the need to tell you that if he didnt like u he would tell u straight out? i duno, guys are so fricken weird. i'd go by what he's told u, but if he's actions are inconsistent w/ what he's told u, then he's just a prick. good luck :)
2007-02-06 07:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by o o g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure u should get into a relationship if u see him once a week u need something more stable don't get me wrong it might work out great for you two and its nothing to be ashamed of being a virgin at 30 i recently lost my virginity at 18 just about 19 and i thought it was bad alot of times cause all my friends where havening sex and i wasn't but i realized love isn't about sex love is about feeling one person has for another and if it takes sex for that it ain't love i wish u the best of luck and don't worry if ur feeling bad go watch 40 year old virgin just kidding if u ever wanna talk my yahoo is Skucher87@yahoo.ca im a very responsible 19 year old and very much enjoy helping people with anything if u can handle taking advice from me message me anytime to talk about anything and ill be there.
2007-02-06 07:55:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing ! You obviously have TRUST ISSUES !!!!! How could you though if you've never had sex or "made love", but wow yeh you should go on Oprah or something and send me any royalties ! He may be a really nice guy who would have to be incredibly in love, caring and understanding - but yeh it would take a LOT of work ! Your last sentence though "....or do you think he really does like me", is a sure give away of low self esteem, poor self concept and as i said trust issues ! The worlds not that bad little red riding hood !
2007-02-06 08:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes u and is polite because he likes u. I think u should go ahead only if he is as proud of your virginity as you are. A 30 years virgin is really rare and a thing to be proud of.
2007-02-06 07:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he does, then he does.
Why would you be proud to be a virgin at 30? If that is the case, then you probably have never been in love. If you have been in love and in a long term relationship, then you probably have some real issues with sex.
Sex is the physical act of love, and while I don't condone sleeping around, trying to deal with a 30 year old virgin wouldn't be worth it unless I was really in love with that person and willing to put the time in to deal with all of the issues that will probably come up.
2007-02-06 07:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I am sure he really does like you. Why would you being a virgin scare him off... unless you have told him you have sworn off forever, in which case why would he stick around.
Do the decent thing and give up the occaisional HJ though.
2007-02-06 07:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by brown one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrates to you on still being a virgin and he is probably saying that he doesn't care because he likes you so dont feel bad im sure he does
2007-02-06 08:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he does like you and Im glad that your saving your self for someone special there is nothing wrong with being a virgin.
Good for you.. good luck with your relationship.
2007-02-06 08:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go virgin. Everyone likes you. You are our special friend.
2007-02-06 07:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ben Dover - Contributor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends what he's doing the other 6 days when your not there.
2007-02-06 07:53:49 · answer #11 · answered by noddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋