My husband is dealing with an aggressive form of cancer and the treatments have been extremely tough on him,so much so that I feel like he's starting to give up.He's young (27),fit and strong and should be able to beat this.For those of you who've been there,what kept you going?What can I do to help?
2007-02-05 23:46:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jackie L 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
I tell them I'm still here, and God's still on the throne.
I'm not trying to be flippant - I really mean it.
In my case, I had a very aggressive Lymphoma. The more aggressive forms respond better to treatment, and thankfully mine was no exception. I had a 3 year old son when I got sick, and I just couldn't let him go through life with no mommy.
But really, I made it, so there's hope for others. I was happy when my hair was gone, because it meant the medicine was working.
Best wishes
2007-02-06 02:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Char 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a cancer survivor but have not faced an aggressive form of it so have been blessed in that way. I have seen my sister fight an aggressive cancer at age 33, with 3 young kids. The only thing I can suggest is to remind him as much as possible of everything he has to fight for, himself & his wonderful life, loved ones, to see his kids grow up, grandkids, etc. Whatever he holds near & dear, just remind him & stay supportive, strong & positive yourself. If he is religious, you might have him talk to his pastor or priest or someone spiritual. Sometimes they can bring in a totally different perspective. You are both in my prayers & keep up the fight!! God Bless!!
2007-02-06 01:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by COblonde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i am still going through this my husband has cancer of the mouth one thing i us is our 13 year old daughter and i tell him if he gives up look what he will be missing out on .i do get depressed with all i have to deal with but i know if i give up he will do the same .he has to have a reason to live and looks like you might be the reason .its hard to be the man and the woman i know but if it was to come down to it i would give my life for him and my daughter hope i have helped you be strong and keep fighting
2007-02-07 23:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its us, the people who are looking after the person fighting cancer who have to be strongest.
You must keep your faith in God. You have to fight any sort of fear and negative vibe. Whenever you go in front of the person fighting cancer, smile, laugh, shout, yell ... even though from the within you are tearing apart.
May God be with you and your husband. God is Great. Keep the Faith.
2007-02-05 23:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Octy a.k.a Octane★97 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i had ovarian cancer almost 10 years ago, i wasn't dealing with anything aggressive but i can give you these tips: place your faith in God, sing a song, hum a tune, whistle, have your husband do visualization techniques, have him repeat "i am victorious", and for yourself - pray and give your spouse the extra strength he needs to conquer this scourge.
2007-02-06 09:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋